Rebecca BlantonDec 19, 20163 min36 Questions You Should Ask Your Partner(s)Immediacy is valued by many. We want what we want and we want it now! The whole concept of delayed gratification has become nearly...
Rebecca BlantonNov 2, 20164 minAre Safe Words Necessary?One of the core principles of BDSM play is that players, all players, have a right to protect their body and mind. We stress consent,...
Rebecca BlantonOct 20, 20165 minS-type Must be AutonomousI know that seems counter-intuitive to most people. Isn’t the role of an s-type based on giving power, sometimes total power, to a...
Rebecca BlantonSep 26, 20167 minConsent: 2016 sstyleOne of the best things about the kink community is that it places consent front and center of community values. Not only do groups talk...