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Resources

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Educationl Groups and Events

Educational Groups, Event Organizers, Conferences, and Professional Organizations

American Association of Sexuality Educators

https://www.aasect.org/

Association that offers accreditation, training, and continuing ed courses for sexuality educators

Forbidden Tickets

http://www.forbiddentickets.com

Ticketing site created for and by members of the BDSM and Kink communities.

London Alternative Market

https://londonalternativemarket.com/home/

Monthly Kink market and Play Party

Black Thorn

https://black-thorn.org/

Private space rental and education venue

Society of Janus

https://soj.org/#cid=1227&wid=1901

Leather social and education group based in San Francisco, CA

TES Fest

http://www.tesfest.org

Annual conference in New Jersey, USA and host of educational seminars

Dom Sub Living

http://www.DomSubLiving.com

blog and on-demand classes about D/s living

Wicked Grounds

https://www.wickedgrounds.com

Formerly a brick and mortar shop in San Francisco, currently online education and retail org.

Boundless

http://www.boundlessevents.org

Northern California based kink education and event group

BDSM Education Center

https://bdsmeducenter.org/

Online Kink education center

Kink Academy

https://www.kinkacademy.com/

Online educaational source for a wide variety of kink/BDSM activities

Southwest Decadence

https://www.southwestdecadence.com/

Annual BDSM conference in Phoenix, AZ

Book Recommendations

Last Updated

December 21, 2023 at 4:37:09 AM

Title
Author
Year
Link to publication
Cruz, Ariane
The Color of Kink: Black Women, BDSM, and Poronography
2016
Brame, Gloria and William Brame
Different Loving, Too: Real Loving, Real People, and BDSM
2015
Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasies:
Blue, Violet and Carol Queen
2014
Fulman, Anton.
The Dominance Playbook: Ways to Play with Power and Scenes in a Relationship
2019
Notes From an Aging Pervert
Hardy, Janet
2023
BDSM: A Guide for Explorers of Extreme Eroticism
Ayzad
2016
https://amzn.to/3Ldu9JL
Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence
Perel, Ester
2009
https://amzn.to/3Z9VVfN
Love is Not Colorblind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities
Patterson, Kevin and Ruby Bouie Johnson
2018
https://amzn.to/3L9LNxK
Enough to Make You Blush: Exploring erotic humiliation
Kali, Princess
2022
https://amzn.to/3RaSmUB
365 Days of Submission: A Journal of Submissive Self-Discovery
Carruthers, Luna
2021
https://amzn.to/45VZOar
Sapphistry: The book of lesbian sexuality
Califia-Rice, Patrick
1980
https://amzn.to/44FqHyb
SlaveCraft: Roadmaps for Erotic Servitude
Baldwin, Guy
2002
https://amzn.to/3LbrZKA
Heart of Dominance
Fulman, Anton
2021
https://amzn.to/3Pusz8V
When Someone You Love is Kinky
Easson, Dossie
2013
https://amzn.to/3Ld3yMZ
The New Bottoming Book
Dossie Eason and Janet Hardy
2011
https://amzn.to/485359q
A Piece of the Heart Can't Be Eaten
Taormino, Tristan
2023
The Body LIberation Project
King, Chrissy
2023
https://amzn.to/3pOjsWn
The Pegging Book
Miller, Cooper and Lyndzi Miiller
2023
https://amzn.to/43yl6sV
The Body Keeps the Score
van der Kolk, Bessel
2014
https://amzn.to/3OdYABq
The Body Is Not an Apology
Taylor, Sonia Renee
2021
https://amzn.to/43qlp9q
The Polyamory Toolkit
Williams, Dan and Dawn Williams
2019
https://amzn.to/3OgIruW
Hearts and Collars
Williams, Dan and Dawn Williams
2023
https://amzn.to/3OgIruW
101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do
Sloan, Kate
2021
https://amzn.to/3OgIruW
Kink for the Curious
Strange, Natasha
2023
https://amzn.to/3Dh52Bu
Differnt Loving
Brame, William; Gloria Brame, and Jon Jacobs
1996
https://amzn.to/3XRM51o
SM 101: A Realistic Introduction
Weissman, Jay
1996
https://amzn.to/3OfZvkE
Ask Yourself: The Consent Culture Workbook
Stryker, Kitty
2019
https://amzn.to/3OfZvkE
Ask: Building Consent Culture
Stryker, Kitty
2017
https://amzn.to/46MZThP
Playing Well with Others
Harrington, Lee; Mollena Willians;
2019
https://amzn.to/46MZThP
Bondge for Ever Body
Vane, Evie
2018
https://amzn.to/3K0VZrR
The Little Guide to Getting Tied Up
Vane, Evie
2019
https://amzn.to/3K0VZrR
Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships
Taoromino, Tristan
2011
https://amzn.to/3PT1cG4
The Ultimate Guide to Kink
Taoromino, Tristan and others
2017
https://amzn.to/3NSWW6W
Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Path to Enlightment and Beyond
Harrington, Lee
2016
https://amzn.to/3pTMST5
Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink
Midori
2013
https://amzn.to/3XUPnB1
The Seducative Art of Japanese Bondage
Midori and Craig Money
2001
https://amzn.to/3K0Vvlx
More Than Two
Veaux, Frank; Eva Rickett, and Jessica Fern
2022
https://amzn.to/3PYvh7h
Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and Open Relationships
Fern, Jessica and Nora Samaran
2020
https://amzn.to/3Odrlhs
The Ethical Slut.
Hardy, Janet and Dossie Easson
2012
https://amzn.to/3NX8NAT
The Bew Bottoming Book
Hardy, Janet and Dossie Easson.
2017
https://amzn.to/3NX8NAT
The New Topping Book
Eason, Dossie and Janet Hardy
2003
https://amzn.to/3XUHmfB
Dating Kinky
Nookie Notes
2018
https://amzn.to/3OfcnYf
Love Letters to a Unicorn: A book about BDSM, Kink, & Nonmonogamy
Blanton, Rebeca
2015
https://amzn.to/3OfcnYf
30 Days of Kinky Self-Discovery
Blanton, Rebecca
2023
https://amzn.to/3OfcnYf
The Big Workbook for Submissives
Blanton, Rebecca.
2022
https://amzn.to/3DhvpHc
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