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Title | Author | Year | URL |
|---|---|---|---|
101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do | Sloan, Kate | 2021 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9781913947217 |
30 Days of Kinky Self-Discovery | Blanton, Rebecca | 2023 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9780990923442 |
365 Days of Submission: A Journal of Submissive Self-Discovery | Carruthers, Luna | 2021 | |
A Part of the Heart Can't Be Eaten | Tristan Tiramino | 2024 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9781478020226 |
An Unquiet Mind | Kay Renfield Jamieson | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9780679763307 | |
Ask Yourself: The Consent Culture Workbook | Stryker, Kitty | 2019 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9781778242007 |
Ask: Building Consent Culture | Stryker, Kitty | 2017 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9781944934255 |
Attechement: The New Science of Adult Attachment | Levine, Amir and Rachel Heller | 2012 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9781585429134 |
BDSM and Kink: The Basics | Goerlich, Stephanie | 2025 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9781032320632 |
BDSM: A Guide for Explorers of Extreme Eroticism | Ayzad | 2016 | |
Bondge for Ever Body | Vane, Evie | 2018 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9780999827604 |
Cruz, Ariane | The Color of Kink: Black Women, BDSM, and Poronography | 2016 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9781479827466 |
Cuckoo | Gretchen Felker-Martin | 2025 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9781250794666 |
Dating Kinky | Nookie Notes | 2018 | |
Different Loving: A complete exploration of dominance and submission | Brame, Gloria and William Brame | 2015 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9780679769569 |
Differnt Loving | Brame, William; Gloria Brame, and Jon Jacobs | 1996 | |
Driven to Distraction: Recognizing and Coping with ADD | Edward Hallowell and John Ratey | 1997 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9780307743152 |
Enough to Make You Blush: Exploring erotic humiliation | Kali, Princess | 2022 | |
Excluded: Making the Feminist and Queer Movements More Inclusive | Julia Serano | 2013 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9781580055048 |
Exploring Your Sexuality: Kink and Sexual Orietnation Recovery Tools for Adverse Childhood Experiences | Kaitlin Wahl | 2022 | |
Fulman, Anton. | The Dominance Playbook: Ways to Play with Power and Scenes in a Relationship | 2019 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9780937609903 |
Heart of Dominance | Fulman, Anton | 2021 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9781534810174 |
Hearts and Collars | Williams, Dan and Dawn Williams | 2023 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9798818640198 |
Hunger: A Memoir of (My) Body | Roxane Gay | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9780062420718 | |
Kink for the Curious Girl | Strange, Natasha | 2023 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9780988964730 |
Kink-Affirming Practice | Stephanie Goerlich | 2022 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9781032038766 |
Love Letters to a Unicorn: A book about BDSM, Kink, & Nonmonogamy | Blanton, Rebeca | 2015 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9798677430008 |
Love is Not Colorblind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities | Patterson, Kevin and Ruby Bouie Johnson | 2018 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9781944934460 |
Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence | Perel, Ester | 2009 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9780060753641 |
More Than Two | Veaux, Frank; Eva Rickett, and Jessica Fern | 2022 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9781990869587 |
Notes From an Aging Pervert | Hardy, Janet | 2023 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9798987019962 |
Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships | Taoromino, Tristan | 2011 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9781573442954 |
Playing Well with Others | Harrington, Lee; Mollena Willians; | 2019 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9780937609583 |
Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and Open Relationships | Fern, Jessica and Nora Samaran | 2020 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9781944934989 |
SM 101: A Realistic Introduction | Weissman, Jay | 1996 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9780963976383 |
Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Path to Enlightment and Beyond | Harrington, Lee | 2016 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9781942733904 |
Sapphistry: The book of lesbian sexuality | Califia-Rice, Patrick | 1980 | |
Sexed Up: How Society Sexualize Us, and How We Can Fight Back | Julia Serano | 2024 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9781541674790 |
SlaveCraft: Roadmaps for Erotic Servitude | Baldwin, Guy | 2002 | |
The Body Is Not an Apology | Taylor, Sonia Renee | 2021 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9781523090990 |
The Body Keeps the Scoer | van der Kolk, Bessel | 2015 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9780143127741 |
The Body LIberation Project | King, Chrissy | 2023 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9780593187043 |
The Ethical Slut. | Hardy, Janet and Dossie Easson | 2012 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9780399579660 |
The Little Guide to Getting Tied Up | Vane, Evie | 2019 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9780999827611 |
The New Bottoming Book | Dossie Eason and Janet Hardy | 2011 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9780999827611 |
The New Bottoming Book | Hardy, Janet and Dossie Easson. | 2017 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9781890159351 |
The New Topping Book | Eason, Dossie and Janet Hardy | 2003 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9781890159368 |
The Pegging Book | Miller, Cooper and Lyndzi Miiller | 2023 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9781778242090 |
The Polyamory Toolkit | Williams, Dan and Dawn Williams | 2019 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9781794193994 |
The Polysecure Workbook | Jessica Fern | 2022 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9781990869044 |
The Power of Different | Saltz, Gayle | 2017 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9781250060044 |
The Power of Now | Tolle, Ekhart | 2019 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9781577314806 |
The Seducative Art of Japanese Bondage | Midori and Craig Money | 2001 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9781890159382 |
The Ultimate Guide to Kink | Taoromino, Tristan and others | 2017 | |
Thick | Tressie McMillian Cottom | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9781620975879 | |
Two Knotty Boys Showing You the Ropes: | Knotty Boys | 2006 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9781931160490 |
Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasies: | Blue, Violet and Carol Queen | 2014 | |
Understanding Schizophernia: A Guide for Patients, Families, and Healthcare Professionals | Ravinder Reddy | 2015 | |
Veterans Resource Guide | USVA | 2024 | |
When Someone You Love is Kinky | Esson, Dossie | 2013 | https://bookshop.org/a/99982/9781890159238 |
Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink | Midori | 2013 |
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