With the 2020 election just days from now, I have spent an enormous amount of time thinking about power: structural power, institutional power, personal power. My entire adult life has been dedicated to the study and understanding of power in some form (go, go, grad school nerd!). In the last three-year shit show of the current administration, I keep returning to the idea that the power most accessible and most feared by people is the power of the erotic. The erotic is the po