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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 6, 20247 min read
A Community Survivial Guide
Practical guide to surviving 2025 and beyone
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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 28, 20243 min read
I'm Voting "Pro Ho"
I’m voting pro ho this election. For months, weird Donny has been calling Kamala Harris a “ho.” He has made claims that she will be “the...
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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 9, 20248 min read
Mark Robinson, Sex Sites, and Politics
I was appointed to political office while active on a porn site. Here are my thoughts on the Mark Robinson scandal. I moved to California...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 16, 20245 min read
Risk-Aware Kink Quiz
Take a short quiz and test your knowledge of Risk Aware Kink!
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 12, 20244 min read
Erotic Choking 101
There is no safe or "safer" way to erotically choke someone. Louder for those of you with earbuds in: THERE IS NO SAFE OR "SAFER" WAY TO...
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Rebecca Blanton
Mar 28, 20245 min read
Fight Capitalism One Wank at a Time!
Masturbation is inherently anti-capitalist. I've been playing with that concept for the last month and have come to really believe that...
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Rebecca Blanton
Mar 22, 20243 min read
Challenging Prejudice: Let's Talk About Sex Workers Rights
Guest Post by Peter Minkoff Photo Credit: https://www.pexels.com/photo/amsterdam-canal-lights-red-light-district-9320/ We live in a world...
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 8, 20247 min read
Sex & Menopause
The world has been sending me messages that y'all are curious about sex and menopause and peri-menopause. I've received multiple emails...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 22, 20243 min read
I Can’t Ask For That! What to do when you are embarrassed about what you want in bed
If you are a frequent reader of sex advice columns, you will quickly come to notice the number of letters which begin “I am so...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 7, 20245 min read
The Gift of "No."
We are at the start of a new calendar year. This means folks out here with lots of resolutions to do new things, restart practices they...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 9, 20234 min read
Finding Out What You Really Want from Intimacy
Sex education is all sorts for messed up! The best we offer kids is showing them how to put a condom on a banana. To quote Dr. Sprankle:...
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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 6, 20234 min read
Asking for It
I've seen an increasing number of studies demonstrating that female (researchers only asked cis women) desire declines in long term...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 25, 20234 min read
Male Masturbation: A touchy subject
This article was sponsored by LoveHoney. I personally endorse their toys! Check out my review here. Male Masturbation: A touchy subject...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 7, 20225 min read
Undoing Religious Damage with BDSM
How to start addressing trauma and damage from a sex-negative upbringing.
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 19, 20225 min read
Is Your Kink Practice Missing Something Critical?
If you have been listening to Fat Chicks on Top, you know I’ve been talking to a variety of kinky folks who entered the scene over 20...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 24, 20222 min read
Sexual Fantasy Research
Sponsored Post We don’t tend to talk about sexual fantasies with many people. Too many of us carry shame around the things we know turn...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 10, 20224 min read
Unfuck Yourself for Pride
Being part of the LGBTQ+ community means growning up in societies where we are not supported or embraced by the majority. If we are lucky...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 1, 20221 min read
Pride 2022
Happy Pride!!! Pride is an ever-evolving event. It started as a riot against abusive policing. It has become a party, a way to take a...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 3, 20224 min read
Kink-Life Balance: Is 24/7 Really for You?
In the world of BDMS, power exchange, and kinky shenanigans, people who identify as having a 24/7 dynamic are often seen as the “ideal”...
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 17, 20222 min read
“No White People Left Behind”
Imani Barbarin I had a wonderful conversation with disabilities activist Imani Barbarin. You can hear our conversation here or the...
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