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I’m voting pro ho this election. For months, weird Donny has been calling Kamala Harris a “ho.” He has made claims that she will be “the...

I was appointed to political office while active on a porn site. Here are my thoughts on the Mark Robinson scandal. I moved to California...

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There is no safe or "safer" way to erotically choke someone. Louder for those of you with earbuds in: THERE IS NO SAFE OR "SAFER" WAY TO...

Masturbation is inherently anti-capitalist. I've been playing with that concept for the last month and have come to really believe that...

Guest Post by Peter Minkoff Photo Credit: https://www.pexels.com/photo/amsterdam-canal-lights-red-light-district-9320/ We live in a world...

The world has been sending me messages that y'all are curious about sex and menopause and peri-menopause. I've received multiple emails...

If you are a frequent reader of sex advice columns, you will quickly come to notice the number of letters which begin “I am so...

We are at the start of a new calendar year. This means folks out here with lots of resolutions to do new things, restart practices they...

Sex education is all sorts for messed up! The best we offer kids is showing them how to put a condom on a banana. To quote Dr. Sprankle:...

I've seen an increasing number of studies demonstrating that female (researchers only asked cis women) desire declines in long term...

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How to start addressing trauma and damage from a sex-negative upbringing.

If you have been listening to Fat Chicks on Top , you know I’ve been talking to a variety of kinky folks who entered the scene over 20...

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Being part of the LGBTQ+ community means growning up in societies where we are not supported or embraced by the majority. If we are lucky...

Happy Pride!!! Pride is an ever-evolving event. It started as a riot against abusive policing. It has become a party, a way to take a...

In the world of BDMS, power exchange, and kinky shenanigans, people who identify as having a 24/7 dynamic are often seen as the “ideal”...