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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 29, 20243 min read
Communicating About Sex is Hard! Make It Easier with These Tips
The most common advice a sex ed writer (including myself) gives for any question is to communicate. Communication about needs, desires,...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 22, 20243 min read
I Can’t Ask For That! What to do when you are embarrassed about what you want in bed
If you are a frequent reader of sex advice columns, you will quickly come to notice the number of letters which begin “I am so...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 7, 20245 min read
The Gift of "No."
We are at the start of a new calendar year. This means folks out here with lots of resolutions to do new things, restart practices they...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 9, 20234 min read
Finding Out What You Really Want from Intimacy
Sex education is all sorts for messed up! The best we offer kids is showing them how to put a condom on a banana. To quote Dr. Sprankle:...
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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 6, 20234 min read
Asking for It
I've seen an increasing number of studies demonstrating that female (researchers only asked cis women) desire declines in long term...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 10, 20232 min read
Become a Better Submissive by Understanding Internal Narratives
There are as many reasons people enjoy submission as there are folks who submit in sex or relationships. Our desires for power exchange...
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Rebecca Blanton
Dec 19, 20224 min read
Find a New Kink for 2023
As we close one calendar year and move into the next, many of us take time to evaluate and make goals or wishes for the coming year. If...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 29, 20224 min read
Why is sexting with strangers only possible on a secure chat site?
SPONSORED POST from AROUSR Chatting with strangers isn’t really something that you have to go out of your way to find. There are lots of...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 24, 20222 min read
Sexual Fantasy Research
Sponsored Post We don’t tend to talk about sexual fantasies with many people. Too many of us carry shame around the things we know turn...
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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 7, 20215 min read
4 Unexepected ways Audio Porn is Better Than Sex
By April Sutphen Sponsored Post Some people might argue that there’s no better feeling in the world than having sex, when in actuality,...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 21, 20206 min read
National “Weird Sex” Day
Valentine’s Day in America is basically the National Day for Weird Sex. After the age of 18 most of us feel the social pressure to do...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 12, 20196 min read
Add a Buzz to Your Sex Life: Introducing Toys
The first time I ordered a sex toy I was 19. It was a vibrator from Good Vibrations in San Francisco. I can remember not knowing really...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 16, 20195 min read
Shy? Here is how to open up
Shyness is something I have had a problem with personally. However, I have had several partners who are deeply reticent to talk about...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 2, 20193 min read
7 Reasons to Masturbate Regularly
Most folks I meet assume that I have sex all the time so I must not need to masturbate. Truth be told, my partner lives a couple of hours...
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 13, 20198 min read
New Boobs (short erotic story)
A short sci-fi, nonbinary erotica for your enjoyment! New Boobs Mica set the large, black box xe was carrying on the library table by the...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 11, 20194 min read
What Owning a Cat Taught Me About Kink, Polyam, and Sex
I’ll be honest, I have never been a huge cat fan. I mean, you adopt this pet who poos in your house, who is petty and controlling, and...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 12, 201838 min read
Goldiloxxx
I write erotica for pay under a number of pseudonyms. My favorite stories are the ones where I get to create entire worlds. Here is one...
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 2, 20175 min read
Can’t Find “The Right One?” You Might be the Problem
Again today, as with so many days, I came upon a thread of women bitching about “no good men left.” As with so many of these threads on...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 6, 20165 min read
Measuring Up: Part Two
I was invited to roast a friend’s husband for his birthday last night. She started the show by mentioning they had just finished a 27 day...
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Rebecca Blanton
Mar 4, 20167 min read
Seeking BBC…
I write a lot about interracial dating and am open that I tend to date Black men. I want to address the personal ads and online dating...
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