The most common advice a sex ed writer (including myself) gives for any question is to communicate. Communication about needs, desires,...

If you are a frequent reader of sex advice columns, you will quickly come to notice the number of letters which begin “I am so...

We are at the start of a new calendar year. This means folks out here with lots of resolutions to do new things, restart practices they...

Sex education is all sorts for messed up! The best we offer kids is showing them how to put a condom on a banana. To quote Dr. Sprankle:...

I've seen an increasing number of studies demonstrating that female (researchers only asked cis women) desire declines in long term...

There are as many reasons people enjoy submission as there are folks who submit in sex or relationships. Our desires for power exchange...

As we close one calendar year and move into the next, many of us take time to evaluate and make goals or wishes for the coming year. If...

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Valentine’s Day in America is basically the National Day for Weird Sex. After the age of 18 most of us feel the social pressure to do...

The first time I ordered a sex toy I was 19. It was a vibrator from Good Vibrations in San Francisco. I can remember not knowing really...

Shyness is something I have had a problem with personally. However, I have had several partners who are deeply reticent to talk about...

Most folks I meet assume that I have sex all the time so I must not need to masturbate. Truth be told, my partner lives a couple of hours...

A short sci-fi, nonbinary erotica for your enjoyment! New Boobs Mica set the large, black box xe was carrying on the library table by the...

I’ll be honest, I have never been a huge cat fan. I mean, you adopt this pet who poos in your house, who is petty and controlling, and...

I write erotica for pay under a number of pseudonyms. My favorite stories are the ones where I get to create entire worlds. Here is one...

Again today, as with so many days, I came upon a thread of women bitching about “no good men left.” As with so many of these threads on...

I was invited to roast a friend’s husband for his birthday last night. She started the show by mentioning they had just finished a 27 day...

I write a lot about interracial dating and am open that I tend to date Black men. I want to address the personal ads and online dating...