Deeper and Deeper....
The physical activities of kink - spanking, tying up people, blindfolds- are what most folks think this lifestyle is all about. Putting...
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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 11, 2022
- 5 min
Things Are Terrifying! How Do I Keep Going?
I was lucky enough to get to interview Mir Green from Wicked Grounds today and it helped me refine a few thoughts I have been playing...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 10, 2022
- 4 min
Unfuck Yourself for Pride
Being part of the LGBTQ+ community means growning up in societies where we are not supported or embraced by the majority. If we are lucky...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 1, 2022
- 1 min
Pride 2022
Happy Pride!!! Pride is an ever-evolving event. It started as a riot against abusive policing. It has become a party, a way to take a...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 16, 2022
- 1 min
Rae Luna: I Know I’m Hot
Rae Luna https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-8aszk-1229636 Guest: Rae Luna, burlesque and go-go dancer This week we continue...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 11, 2022
- 1 min
Summer Reading List
Meg Elison, Author I finally got to talk to one of my favorite authors, Meg Elison. She has written the Road to Nowhere series, Big Girl,...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 28, 2022
- 4 min
The #1 Thing Dom(me)s Hate!
I work with a lot of kinky folks of all identities and levels of experience. When I talk to folks from the left side of the slash, they...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 17, 2022
- 1 min
Fetlife How-To’s
Thought about joining Fetlife.com but have some concerns? Worried that your employer or ex-spouse will find your account and out you?...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 12, 2022
- 4 min
Dating in an On-going Pandemic
Being single, or at least being in a position to date, during the pandemic is challenging. We all crave human touch and interaction. We...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 2, 2021
- 5 min
7 Tips When You Are New to Kink
Whether you personally are new to kink, or you are dating someone new to kink, it is an exciting time filled with fun and learning! It...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 15, 2021
- 4 min
7 Tips for Navigating the Post-COVID Kink World
Things are beginning to open back up in the United States and elsewhere. While we are not at a point with public health to fully reopen...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Dec 3, 2020
- 3 min
New Year! Better, Kinkier YOU!
I am so excited to announce I will be working with Wicked Grounds to host “30 Days of Kinky Self-Discovery” in January 2021. So many...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Oct 31, 2020
- 5 min
Election 2020 and Erotic Power
With the 2020 election just days from now, I have spent an enormous amount of time thinking about power: structural power, institutional...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 12, 2020
- 5 min
Pride: Be Queer. Fuck the Patriarchy
Happy Pride Month! This year Pride has been cancelled in most locations due to COVID-19 and celebrations are looking a bit different....
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 14, 2020
- 7 min
10 Things EVERY Kinky Person Should Try
We all have our limits, be they soft or hard. Not everyone likes spanking. Not everyone enjoys rope. We are all loosely bound by our...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 2, 2019
- 6 min
I’m Tired. Can We Just Shut Up and Fuck?
I’m feeling old and crotchety after a month of Pride. Maybe its because I have been doing Pride for more than three decades and it is not...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 2, 2018
- 4 min
Make Pride Queer Again
It’s June, Pride Month. I have been out for three decades and have spent most of that time as a queer rights advocate. I have very mixed...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 25, 2018
- 8 min
Fetlife Protest Isn’t Just a “Feminist Thing”
For those of you unfamiliar with Fetlife, it is a social media site for kinky folks (kinky defined very broadly). Currently, there is a...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 4, 2018
- 4 min
Adding the K to “LGBTQ+” – NO
There is a new call to add a K for “kink” to the LGBTQ+ acronym. This call for more inclusion has highlighted a couple of issues in both...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 19, 2018
- 6 min
Switching It Up
A couple of months ago I was performing with Bawdy Storytelling and had the great pleasure of hearing Race Bannon tell a story about the...
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