Kink-Life Balance: Is 24/7 Really for You?
In the world of BDMS, power exchange, and kinky shenanigans, people who identify as having a 24/7 dynamic are often seen as the “ideal”...
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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 11, 2022
- 1 min
Summer Reading List
Meg Elison, Author I finally got to talk to one of my favorite authors, Meg Elison. She has written the Road to Nowhere series, Big Girl,...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 28, 2022
- 4 min
The #1 Thing Dom(me)s Hate!
I work with a lot of kinky folks of all identities and levels of experience. When I talk to folks from the left side of the slash, they...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 24, 2022
- 4 min
How To Communicate When You Hate Long Talks
Communication is key. You have heard it hundreds, if not thousands of time when it comes to creating successful relationships and...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 12, 2022
- 4 min
Dating in an On-going Pandemic
Being single, or at least being in a position to date, during the pandemic is challenging. We all crave human touch and interaction. We...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Dec 26, 2021
- 2 min
Getting What You Want in 2022: Step 1
It is almost the end of 2021. I know mine has been exhausting. While the career aspect is going strong and health is slowly improving,...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Oct 13, 2021
- 6 min
Can’t Find the Dom(me) of Your Dreams? This May Be Why!
Dating while kinky can be fun. It can also be immensely frustrating! Finding and connecting with a partner who matches you on desire,...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Oct 7, 2021
- 5 min
4 Unexepected ways Audio Porn is Better Than Sex
By April Sutphen Sponsored Post Some people might argue that there’s no better feeling in the world than having sex, when in actuality,...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 20, 2021
- 3 min
What Can You Do If You Disagree with Your Dominant?
One of the most difficult issues of being a submissive or other s-type is having a disagreement with your dominant. Power exchange...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 12, 2021
- 4 min
5 Common Beliefs Which Undermine Your Sex Life
You receive messages about sex and sexuality your entire live. From the media you watch, listen to, and read, to how your parents...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 2, 2021
- 4 min
Options Other Than Faking Orgasms
If you read much sex writing or feminist think pieces you are probably innunadate with work on the ‘orgasm gap’ and the admonition to...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 18, 2021
- 4 min
BDSM Beyond the Bedroom
If you are new-ish to kink you may be under the impression that power exchange and kink are specifically for sex and intimate play time....
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 2, 2021
- 5 min
7 Tips When You Are New to Kink
Whether you personally are new to kink, or you are dating someone new to kink, it is an exciting time filled with fun and learning! It...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 29, 2021
- 4 min
7 Tips to Help You Screen For Abusers on Kink Sites
In a most predictable move, once BDSM became a topic most American’s had heard about, abusers co-opted its language to justify their...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 25, 2021
- 5 min
Do This BEFORE a Partner Cheats
Listen on Spotify Finding out your partner has cheated on you is often devastating. Regardless of your relationship style (monogamous,...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 12, 2021
- 4 min
10 New Role Play Ideas!
If you are into role playing, most likely you are familiar with the classics: student/teacher, parent/child, landowner/servant,...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 9, 2021
- 4 min
Need a Little Sexy Inspiration? Try This!
One think a lot of people new to kink and BDSM find surprising is that even with the most experienced kinky folks, we can get a bit bored...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 22, 2021
- 5 min
7 Tips to Improve Your Sexy Banter
Listen on Spotify Want to stimulate the biggest sex organ for anyone? You need to get their brain aroused! While many of us rely on...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 16, 2021
- 4 min
Sex Life in a Rut? Break Out of It With These 5 Tips
Listen on Spotify One of my favorite scenes from a movie is the therapy scene in the beginning of The Ref. Judy Davis and Kevin Spacey...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Nov 16, 2020
- 10 min
Having a Hard Time Feeling Sexy? You are Not Alone!
Its been a hard year. A. Very. Hard. Year. Between COVID lockdowns and restrictions, the election, the United States beginning to recon...
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