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Rebecca Blanton
Mar 28, 20245 min read
Fight Capitalism One Wank at a Time!
Masturbation is inherently anti-capitalist. I've been playing with that concept for the last month and have come to really believe that...
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 8, 20247 min read
Sex & Menopause
The world has been sending me messages that y'all are curious about sex and menopause and peri-menopause. I've received multiple emails...
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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 19, 20223 min read
Menopause Just as Likely to INCREASE Sex Drive as Decrease It
A Myth Busting Survey by Fun Factory and Momotaro Apotheca (post sponsored by Fun Factory) Highlighted Results ● 42% of women aged...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 7, 20225 min read
Undoing Religious Damage with BDSM
How to start addressing trauma and damage from a sex-negative upbringing.
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Rebecca Blanton
May 25, 20222 min read
A Sexy Bucket List: How many have you done?
I am a fan of sexual and intimacy goal setting. It is a way to prioritize your pleasure and not let it languish as life happens. It also...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 16, 20221 min read
Rae Luna: I Know I’m Hot
Rae Luna https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-8aszk-1229636 Guest: Rae Luna, burlesque and go-go dancer This week we continue...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 8, 20221 min read
Shay Tizano: Bound Up in Joy
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-amw4e-121fc8c Guest: Shay Tizano, Rope expert, Erotic Performer Author of Tying and Flying and...
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Rebecca Blanton
Mar 15, 20223 min read
Should Submissives Express THEIR Needs?
When you are submissive or enjoy being submissive with a partner, navigating your own desires can be tricky. As submissives, we sometime...
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Rebecca Blanton
Dec 26, 20212 min read
Getting What You Want in 2022: Step 1
It is almost the end of 2021. I know mine has been exhausting. While the career aspect is going strong and health is slowly improving,...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 15, 20213 min read
An Introduction to Body Affirming Kink Play
Feeling bad about your body is common. Regardless of your actual weight, height, ability, shape, gender, or age, anyone can feel bad...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 30, 20204 min read
Vaginal Dryness? It’s More Than “Just Add Lube”
I am a huge fan of lube as a normal part of sex. I have been using it since I discovered it in my teens. It is essential for fisting,...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 17, 20203 min read
How Your Body and Sex Appeal Change as You Age
Guest Post By Peter Minkoff As we age, many things will unavoidably change – for the better of the worse. But you know what? Even though...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 14, 202010 min read
30 Days of Kinky Self Discovery
A formatted and printable version of this post is located here: 30 days of kinky self-discoveryDownload I’ll be honest. I have been...
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 22, 20197 min read
Want to Improve Your Sex Life? This Tip Works Every Time!
Sorry for the click bait title, but it got you here. Now for some actual substance. I have been talking to a lot of folks over 40 about...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 9, 20191 min read
Bonus Clips! Alice in Bondageland and Bevin
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-2jizs-a4090b Bonus Clips!! Our producer CharRon has put bonus material together from some of our...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 11, 20181 min read
Episode 9: 40!!!
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-gpaia-9ee5de 40!!! Guests: Evie Vane (author, blogger) and Tina Hayes (Belly Dancer/Model) Auntie...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 31, 20183 min read
What 100 Hours of Talking to Sexy Peeps Taught Me
I launched my podcast project Fat Chicks On Top a few months back. I have been recording and building content since March. Its been a...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 12, 201838 min read
Goldiloxxx
I write erotica for pay under a number of pseudonyms. My favorite stories are the ones where I get to create entire worlds. Here is one...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 6, 20183 min read
Want to Feel More Beautiful? Try This!
Most of us, whatever our gender, whatever our sexual orientation, do not love our bodies. Or, we do not love our bodies most of the time....
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Rebecca Blanton
Mar 2, 20182 min read
Free the Pussy, Free the World
I have spent nearly 30 years working in political activism. My graduate work in political psychology focused on identity, education and...
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