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A Community Survivial Guide
Practical guide to surviving 2025 and beyone
Rebecca Blanton
Nov 6, 20247 min read


Become a Better Submissive by Understanding Internal Narratives
There are as many reasons people enjoy submission as there are folks who submit in sex or relationships. Our desires for power exchange...
Rebecca Blanton
Aug 10, 20232 min read


Menopause Just as Likely to INCREASE Sex Drive as Decrease It
A Myth Busting Survey by Fun Factory and Momotaro Apotheca (post sponsored by Fun Factory) Highlighted Results ● 42% of women aged...
Rebecca Blanton
Oct 19, 20223 min read


Unfuck Yourself for Pride
Being part of the LGBTQ+ community means growning up in societies where we are not supported or embraced by the majority. If we are lucky...
Rebecca Blanton
Jun 10, 20224 min read


Rae Luna: I Know I’m Hot
Rae Luna https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-8aszk-1229636 Guest: Rae Luna, burlesque and go-go dancer This week we continue...
Rebecca Blanton
May 16, 20221 min read


How Your Body and Sex Appeal Change as You Age
Guest Post By Peter Minkoff As we age, many things will unavoidably change – for the better of the worse. But you know what? Even though...
Rebecca Blanton
Sep 17, 20203 min read


The Future of Gender
I did an interview for Unleash Their PoTEENtial a free, online teen summit about the future of gender (spoiler alert: its nonbinary)....
Rebecca Blanton
Sep 8, 20201 min read


Embracing Sex Writing
I am an accidental sex/kink blogger. This site started five years ago as a book promotion site for a book I really didn’t think too many...
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 9, 20203 min read


Episode 9: 40!!!
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-gpaia-9ee5de 40!!! Guests: Evie Vane (author, blogger) and Tina Hayes (Belly Dancer/Model) Auntie...
Rebecca Blanton
Nov 11, 20181 min read


Identifying vs. Becoming
In the kinky world we use a lot of labels. Queer, kinky, top, bottom, Master, slave, Domme, submissive, baby girl, pet, Daddy, switch,...
Rebecca Blanton
May 22, 20184 min read


Fetlife Protest Isn’t Just a “Feminist Thing”
For those of you unfamiliar with Fetlife, it is a social media site for kinky folks (kinky defined very broadly). Currently, there is a...
Rebecca Blanton
Apr 25, 20188 min read


If You Don’t “Get” Non-Binary, Read This
The more I read about nonbinary folks and the more I see cis folks try and talk about nonbinary folks, the more I understand that this is...
Rebecca Blanton
Apr 3, 20184 min read


Free the Pussy, Free the World
I have spent nearly 30 years working in political activism. My graduate work in political psychology focused on identity, education and...
Rebecca Blanton
Mar 2, 20182 min read


Is Non-Binary the Future of Gender?
News headlines are floating around about 20 percent of Millennials identifying as “non-binary.” This is based on a new study by GLAAD...
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 3, 20185 min read


Hef, Playboy, & American Sex
With the passing of Hugh Hefner today, lots of sex writers and educators are reflecting on his influence on their lives and work. It is...
Rebecca Blanton
Sep 28, 20175 min read


Non-binary: Real or Rebellion?
Hello Readers! Sorry I have been away for so long. I had a severe infection and no help from doctors. But, despite the deplorable state...
Rebecca Blanton
Sep 25, 20177 min read


The Problem with Passing
I pass as a heterosexual cis-female and I hate that. I have always passed (well, more or less) regardless of what I wear, my hair,...
Rebecca Blanton
Aug 2, 20173 min read


Pronoun Wars, Part II
The other night I was at a poetry open mic billed as a “safe space” for the LGBTQAII community. As per the norm in such spaces, the host...
Rebecca Blanton
Jul 5, 20174 min read


Sex and the Resistance
It is Pride month. This year is particularly politically charged. There are fights about adding black and brown stripes to the Pride...
Rebecca Blanton
Jun 26, 20175 min read


On Being “Beautiful Ugly”
Guest Author: Joie de Vivre Joie de Vivre is a the co-producer of Peepshow in San Francisco and a burlesque performer. She regularly...
Rebecca Blanton
Jun 16, 20177 min read
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