I have had the benefit of being part of the both the queer and kink communities for a very long time now. Part of being part of sexual minorities is that I have been forced to think a lot about sexuality, the ethics of it, and how it impacts my life. Sexuality is a lot like being other types of minorities in that the minority is forced to think about things people in the majority never have to deal with. When you are White you can move through society without thinking about t

We are all born naked. Everything else is drag. ~RuPaul I want to take a concept from sexual orientation and evolve it to relate to gender. People speak of sexual orientation to describe in part to the people they are sexually attracted too. Heterosexuals (e.g., straight, hetero) are attracted to people differently gendered. Homosexuals (e.g., gay, lesbian) are sexually attracted to same-gendered people. Some people are asexual. These individuals are not sexually attracted to