I am a huge fan of lube as a normal part of sex. I have been using it since I discovered it in my teens. It is essential for fisting,...

There is the myth that the Inuit have some amazing number of words for snow. They don’t- but we have all heard the myth. The concept is...

The submissive’s body is a unique thing. Our body is ours, first and foremost. We have the right and the responsibility to keep it safe....

I have written before in this blog about living with and engaging in power exchange relationships while living with a mental illness. I...

I have been away from this blog for a couple of weeks due to illness. For two and a half years I have been trying to get some chronic...