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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.

7 Tips to Help You Screen For Abusers on Kink Sites

Rebecca Blanton

Jun 29, 2021
4 min

7 Tips to Help You Screen For Abusers on Kink Sites

In a most predictable move, once BDSM became a topic most American’s had heard about, abusers co-opted its language to justify their...

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Is BDSM Inescapably Racist:4 years later

Rebecca Blanton

Jan 11, 2021
3 min

Is BDSM Inescapably Racist:4 years later

Four years ago I posted about the difficulty of navigating BDSM and racism. The language we use (Master/slave) and many of our practices...

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Rebecca Blanton

Dec 13, 2016
4 min

Pronoun Wars

The presence of non-binary gendered folks is becoming more known. Some groups in the kink and queer worlds are starting to recognize that...

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So, What is Sex-Positive & Why Do I Care?

Rebecca Blanton

Jun 22, 2016
4 min

So, What is Sex-Positive & Why Do I Care?

Sex positive has become a new catchphrase in the professional word of sex educators and writers and body-positive movement folks. I am...

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Rebecca Blanton

Feb 26, 2016
5 min

Loving Pink and Being a Girl

I have been called out on this blog several times for referring to myself as a “girl.” There are people out there, mostly women, who hate...

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Rebecca Blanton

Jul 19, 2015
5 min

Loving Black Men

The timing of this post is prompted by a discussion currently occurring on Fetlife (major social network site for the kink community). A...

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Rebecca Blanton

Jul 13, 2015
4 min

The Flavor of “Sir”

I experience language differently than a lot of people. Words have sound and meaning, and I can see them written on a page as other do,...

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