Rebecca BlantonJun 29, 20214 min7 Tips to Help You Screen For Abusers on Kink SitesIn a most predictable move, once BDSM became a topic most American’s had heard about, abusers co-opted its language to justify their...
Rebecca BlantonJan 11, 20213 minIs BDSM Inescapably Racist:4 years laterFour years ago I posted about the difficulty of navigating BDSM and racism. The language we use (Master/slave) and many of our practices...
Rebecca BlantonDec 13, 20164 minPronoun WarsThe presence of non-binary gendered folks is becoming more known. Some groups in the kink and queer worlds are starting to recognize that...
Rebecca BlantonJun 23, 20164 minSo, What is Sex-Positive & Why Do I Care?Sex positive has become a new catchphrase in the professional word of sex educators and writers and body-positive movement folks. I am...