Rebecca BlantonJun 29, 20214 min7 Tips to Help You Screen For Abusers on Kink SitesIn a most predictable move, once BDSM became a topic most American’s had heard about, abusers co-opted its language to justify their...
Rebecca BlantonJan 11, 20213 minIs BDSM Inescapably Racist:4 years laterFour years ago I posted about the difficulty of navigating BDSM and racism. The language we use (Master/slave) and many of our practices...
Rebecca BlantonDec 13, 20164 minPronoun WarsThe presence of non-binary gendered folks is becoming more known. Some groups in the kink and queer worlds are starting to recognize that...
Rebecca BlantonJun 22, 20164 minSo, What is Sex-Positive & Why Do I Care?Sex positive has become a new catchphrase in the professional word of sex educators and writers and body-positive movement folks. I am...
Rebecca BlantonFeb 26, 20165 minLoving Pink and Being a GirlI have been called out on this blog several times for referring to myself as a “girl.” There are people out there, mostly women, who hate...
Rebecca BlantonJul 19, 20155 minLoving Black MenThe timing of this post is prompted by a discussion currently occurring on Fetlife (major social network site for the kink community). A...
Rebecca BlantonJul 13, 20154 minThe Flavor of “Sir”I experience language differently than a lot of people. Words have sound and meaning, and I can see them written on a page as other do,...