Power exchange relationships have many similarities to vanilla relationships. Both require kindness, understanding, communication, and...

I pass as a heterosexual cis-female and I hate that. I have always passed (well, more or less) regardless of what I wear, my hair,...

I want to address the apparently growing trend of discovering and practicing kink without connecting to actual humans you are not having...

It is probably the most common thing I hear or see written about submission: The submissive is really the one in charge. The sub can stop...

I love sex! I do. And I think sex is important to most healthy romantic relationships. The old adage is sex is about ten percent of any...

Immediacy is valued by many. We want what we want and we want it now! The whole concept of delayed gratification has become nearly...

Hey my kinky peeps! I love you. I do. But, as a community, we have got some work to do. We are not inclusive as we should be. We are...

First, let me get a few things in the open (if you are not already familiar). One, I like sex. I like it a lot and believe it should be...

There are subtle and not so subtle signs a relationship won’t work out. The primary one I have learned to look for over the years is...