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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 2, 20173 min read
The Problem with Passing
I pass as a heterosexual cis-female and I hate that. I have always passed (well, more or less) regardless of what I wear, my hair,...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 16, 20175 min read
Get Out of Your Head!
I want to address the apparently growing trend of discovering and practicing kink without connecting to actual humans you are not having...
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 16, 20174 min read
Submission and Vulnerability
It is probably the most common thing I hear or see written about submission: The submissive is really the one in charge. The sub can stop...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 9, 20176 min read
10 Things You Can Do To Increase Intimacy
I love sex! I do. And I think sex is important to most healthy romantic relationships. The old adage is sex is about ten percent of any...
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Rebecca Blanton
Dec 19, 20163 min read
36 Questions You Should Ask Your Partner(s)
Immediacy is valued by many. We want what we want and we want it now! The whole concept of delayed gratification has become nearly...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 19, 20165 min read
Kinky Folks, We Better Work
Hey my kinky peeps! I love you. I do. But, as a community, we have got some work to do. We are not inclusive as we should be. We are...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 16, 20164 min read
Sex-First! Polyamory Culture
First, let me get a few things in the open (if you are not already familiar). One, I like sex. I like it a lot and believe it should be...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 24, 20164 min read
Relationship Red Flags
There are subtle and not so subtle signs a relationship won’t work out. The primary one I have learned to look for over the years is...
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