Since Thanksgiving is this week in the United States, I am going to step out of the series of posts on community building and give thanks for all things kinky in my life. Kink has been part of my life for three decades now. I came into my sexuality as a kinky person. I cannot fathom what or who I would have become if I had never discovered kink. Since I put of the book which started this blog, I have thought a lot about what kink can give the world. I am grateful for bodily a