Rebecca BlantonMay 22, 20184 minIdentifying vs. BecomingIn the kinky world we use a lot of labels. Queer, kinky, top, bottom, Master, slave, Domme, submissive, baby girl, pet, Daddy, switch,...
Rebecca BlantonApr 3, 20184 minIf You Don’t “Get” Non-Binary, Read ThisThe more I read about nonbinary folks and the more I see cis folks try and talk about nonbinary folks, the more I understand that this is...
Rebecca BlantonJan 3, 20185 minIs Non-Binary the Future of Gender?News headlines are floating around about 20 percent of Millennials identifying as “non-binary.” This is based on a new study by GLAAD...
Rebecca BlantonAug 2, 20173 minThe Problem with PassingI pass as a heterosexual cis-female and I hate that. I have always passed (well, more or less) regardless of what I wear, my hair,...
Rebecca BlantonMay 8, 20173 minAgender – What does that mean?I find being agender weird. Most days, really about 98 percent of the time, I could care less about my gender. I am a feminist for...
Rebecca BlantonFeb 22, 20173 minLiminal ExistanceA friend of mine, an immigrant from Eastern Europe, just became an American citizen. Upon receiving her passport, she posted on Facebook...