When “D” in BDSM Stands for Dissimilar
Hot take: A majority of folks you date will have dissimilar sexual needs and tastes than you do. Most couples I have met over my 40+ years have mismatched sexual needs. This can come in the form of frequency of sexual desire, needs around who initiates sex and how, what activities are desired, or a combination of all of the above. Being part of a sexually mismatched couple can range from mildly annoying to a massive issue in the relationship. My mother, a therapists, is fond