What Is a Submissive’s Responsibility?
I love it when I come across people writing about submission in a deep and thoughtful way! If you have not discovered The Pleasure Coach,...
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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 10, 2021
- 4 min
Do You Always Need a Safe Word?
Safe words are one of the most referenced kink ideas. The concept of a simple word which stops all action and indicates someone is not...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Oct 15, 2020
- 4 min
Anticipatory Service
Many of us identify as “service submissives.” We enjoy serving others (at least we enjoy serving a D-type). Some of us (including me)...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 14, 2020
- 10 min
30 Days of Kinky Self Discovery
A formatted and printable version of this post is located here: 30 days of kinky self-discoveryDownload I’ll be honest. I have been...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 16, 2020
- 9 min
When “D” in BDSM Stands for Dissimilar
Hot take: A majority of folks you date will have dissimilar sexual needs and tastes than you do. Most couples I have met over my 40+...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 2, 2019
- 5 min
“We Need to Talk”: Ambiguity in Relationships
“We need to talk.” Its the sentence many of us live in fear of hearing from our partners. When we get a text or a message or a partner...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 21, 2018
- 9 min
Negotiation 101 for Subby Types
We talk a lot about negotiation in the kink scene. Negotiating what you will and will not do, what you want and what your partner(s) want...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Oct 23, 2017
- 7 min
The Submissive’s Body & Chronic Pain
The submissive’s body is a unique thing. Our body is ours, first and foremost. We have the right and the responsibility to keep it safe....
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