I love it when I come across people writing about submission in a deep and thoughtful way! If you have not discovered The Pleasure Coach,...

Safe words are one of the most referenced kink ideas. The concept of a simple word which stops all action and indicates someone is not...

Many of us identify as “service submissives.” We enjoy serving others (at least we enjoy serving a D-type). Some of us (including me)...

A formatted and printable version of this post is located here: 30 days of kinky self-discoveryDownload I’ll be honest. I have been...

Hot take: A majority of folks you date will have dissimilar sexual needs and tastes than you do. Most couples I have met over my 40+...

“We need to talk.” Its the sentence many of us live in fear of hearing from our partners. When we get a text or a message or a partner...

We talk a lot about negotiation in the kink scene. Negotiating what you will and will not do, what you want and what your partner(s) want...

The submissive’s body is a unique thing. Our body is ours, first and foremost. We have the right and the responsibility to keep it safe....