Rebecca BlantonOct 13, 20216 minCan’t Find the Dom(me) of Your Dreams? This May Be Why!Dating while kinky can be fun. It can also be immensely frustrating! Finding and connecting with a partner who matches you on desire,...
Rebecca BlantonSep 20, 20213 minWhat Can You Do If You Disagree with Your Dominant?One of the most difficult issues of being a submissive or other s-type is having a disagreement with your dominant. Power exchange...
Rebecca BlantonAug 21, 20189 minNegotiation 101 for Subby TypesWe talk a lot about negotiation in the kink scene. Negotiating what you will and will not do, what you want and what your partner(s) want...
Rebecca BlantonNov 21, 20177 minPower of ApologiesI have been thinking a lot about apologies lately. Nationally, men have been issuing varying forms of apologies for sexually harassing...
Rebecca BlantonNov 2, 20164 minAre Safe Words Necessary?One of the core principles of BDSM play is that players, all players, have a right to protect their body and mind. We stress consent,...