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On Certainty
At some point in the last decade culture in the United States started demanding that people be certain about everything. We collectively...
Rebecca Blanton
Sep 12, 20164 min read


The Need to Serve
Service is quintessential to much of submission. Submissives of many ilks incorporate some form of service into their submission. We...
Rebecca Blanton
Jul 19, 20163 min read


Submission and Mental Illness
My first serious girlfriend told me I was not worth the risk to marry because I had Bipolar. She knew this when we got together. Still,...
Rebecca Blanton
Jul 6, 20164 min read


Consent, 2016 Style
Consent is one of these topics that comes up all the time in the kink community. It will come up in the wider world after a horrific rape...
Rebecca Blanton
Jun 10, 20167 min read


Measuring Up: Part Two
I was invited to roast a friend’s husband for his birthday last night. She started the show by mentioning they had just finished a 27 day...
Rebecca Blanton
May 6, 20165 min read


Open Letter to Dominants
Dear Doms and Dommes: Thank you. Thank you for enjoying your role on the left of the slash. Without you, my life would not be nearly as...
Rebecca Blanton
Nov 4, 20156 min read


The ‘Woo’ of Kink
My last post about sub space got a flood of responses. Most of the 3,000+ people who replied here and on Fetlife were very complimentary....
Rebecca Blanton
Oct 29, 20157 min read


What Everyone Needs to Know About Sub Space
Image from www.korucorner.co.nz All rights reserved. When I was an undergrad, I took a course on altered states of consciousness. The...
Rebecca Blanton
Oct 25, 20156 min read


Feminism, Bad Feminism, Choice, and Submission
I am a feminist. I am a submissive. This is my choice. There is no conflict between the two for me. However, my submission is not an act...
Rebecca Blanton
May 16, 20157 min read


Myths About Submission
I want to talk about perceptions versus reality of submission. There are a lot of misconceptions for both vanilla folks and newbie...
Rebecca Blanton
Apr 29, 20157 min read
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