On Certainty
At some point in the last decade culture in the United States started demanding that people be certain about everything. We collectively...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 21, 2016
- 5 min
Polyamory as a Sexual Orientation???
Vice.com just put out an article about people seeking to qualify polyamory as a sexual orientation. It’s not, but don’t stop reading....
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 11, 2016
- 4 min
Why are you surprised???
When I woke to news of the mass murders in Orlando last month I was devastated. The pain was visceral. I cried for days. Dozens of my...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 25, 2016
- 5 min
Masculinity
I have been overwhelmed by the number of stories in the past few weeks about the horrors brought about by men who did not feel like they...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 19, 2016
- 3 min
My Dad, My Mom and My Strength
The first time I was really made aware of the fact that I was a “girl” was in first grade. Until this point, I had remained blissfully...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 16, 2016
- 5 min
Comimg Out
I have had to come out about things a few times in my life. I’m queer. I’m bipolar. I am kinky. None of these things are obvious at first...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 15, 2016
- 3 min
You Are Not as Poly or Mono As You Think
I spend a lot of time talking to people and reading social media boards by both polyamorous and monogamous folks. Universally, people are...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 9, 2016
- 4 min
Its a Phase
I debated a lot before I decided to post this blog entry. I have been active in the LGBTQ movement for thirty years now. I know the...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 25, 2016
- 3 min
Am I Doing this Right????
Its the most common question I see of new kinksters, “Am I doing this right?” It comes in several versions, “I think I am a Domme, but I...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 18, 2016
- 3 min
Parenting Beyond the Binary
Recently I have seen a lot of memes and other social media that is similar to the above posting. They all have examples of parents...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Oct 22, 2015
- 6 min
Born This Way?
There is a local comedian in Sacramento who does a great joke. She starts with the premise that her parents used to spank her. Now, she...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Oct 20, 2015
- 4 min
Halloween
I love Halloween. Its basically the primary gay holiday in the U.S. I love dressing up, going out, having a ton of fun, and finishing the...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Oct 9, 2015
- 3 min
My Mr. Potato Head Fantasy
I have written here about being agendered. I am working on an extended piece for my next book. In doing that, I have been speaking with...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 8, 2015
- 6 min
To Be “Real”
You Got To Be Real – Cheryl Lynn (1978) There are few things in English I hate more than the insistence of modifying a social construct...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 25, 2015
- 5 min
Agendered
We are all born naked. Everything else is drag. ~RuPaul I want to take a concept from sexual orientation and evolve it to relate to...
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