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Pain. The Good, The Bad, the Fun!
There is the myth that the Inuit have some amazing number of words for snow. They don’t- but we have all heard the myth. The concept is...
Rebecca Blanton
Sep 14, 20195 min read


Sexier Sex? Plan for it!
I can remember the first time I read Macho Sluts by Pat Califia. While all the sex was really hot, a few of the stories stood out because...
Rebecca Blanton
Aug 27, 20194 min read


I’m Tired. Can We Just Shut Up and Fuck?
I’m feeling old and crotchety after a month of Pride. Maybe its because I have been doing Pride for more than three decades and it is not...
Rebecca Blanton
Jul 2, 20196 min read


Why Collars Are Important to BDSM
Guest Post By: Spices of Lust Your BDSM experience is personal to you — and your partners. It’s meant to be whatever you make of it, and...
Rebecca Blanton
Jun 18, 20193 min read


Add a Buzz to Your Sex Life: Introducing Toys
The first time I ordered a sex toy I was 19. It was a vibrator from Good Vibrations in San Francisco. I can remember not knowing really...
Rebecca Blanton
Jun 12, 20196 min read


Flip It and Reverse It: Protocols for Dominants
I adore having protocols in a relationship. Those rules and rituals power exchange couples create to serve their relationship provide a...
Rebecca Blanton
May 29, 20196 min read


What a Drag!
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-4nqff-b26bb3 Episode 15: What a Drag! Host: Auntie Vice, Amy Estes Guests: Eartha Tremors (of the...
Rebecca Blanton
May 25, 20191 min read


Adult Playtime: Adding Games to Your Love Life
One of the things I have always loved about BDSM and kink is the value it puts on play. Kinky folks call all the different activities we...
Rebecca Blanton
May 23, 20196 min read


Shy? Here is how to open up
Shyness is something I have had a problem with personally. However, I have had several partners who are deeply reticent to talk about...
Rebecca Blanton
May 16, 20195 min read


Epsidoe 14: Disability, Healing, and Star Trek
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-nmdui-b0ec4e Hosts: Auntie Vice and CharRon Smith Guests: Kirsten Shultz, Katori Knight, Amber...
Rebecca Blanton
May 11, 20191 min read


7 Reasons to Masturbate Regularly
Most folks I meet assume that I have sex all the time so I must not need to masturbate. Truth be told, my partner lives a couple of hours...
Rebecca Blanton
May 2, 20193 min read


“We Need to Talk”: Ambiguity in Relationships
“We need to talk.” Its the sentence many of us live in fear of hearing from our partners. When we get a text or a message or a partner...
Rebecca Blanton
Apr 2, 20195 min read


Episode 13: Invisible Disabilities
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-argr5-aca17a Co-Hosts: Erica Ambrin, Auntie Vice Guests: Ali Yada, Amber Whitford Erica Ambrin...
Rebecca Blanton
Apr 1, 20191 min read


Episode 12: Connections
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-in6zm-abed6f Co-Hosts: Auntie Vice and Erica Ambrin Guests: Koe Creation, Ali Yada Guest co-host...
Rebecca Blanton
Mar 25, 20191 min read


Bonus Episdoe! NonBinary People on NonBinary Identity
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-9dzt3-ab7954 Host: Auntie Vice Guests: Renair Amin and Koe Creation Auntie Vice identifies as...
Rebecca Blanton
Mar 20, 20191 min read


Episode 11: Sex Toys!
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-k2rgx-a92a11 Guests: Paul Imagine (adult toy store owner) and Lindsay Hoppe (sex toy reviewer)...
Rebecca Blanton
Feb 26, 20191 min read


Decolonizing Beauty
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-4bafi-a5edb8 Fat Chicks hosts Auntie Vice and Wendy Lewis interview Mariana Moscosos of the...
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 27, 20191 min read


What Owning a Cat Taught Me About Kink, Polyam, and Sex
I’ll be honest, I have never been a huge cat fan. I mean, you adopt this pet who poos in your house, who is petty and controlling, and...
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 11, 20194 min read


Bonus Clips! Alice in Bondageland and Bevin
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-2jizs-a4090b Bonus Clips!! Our producer CharRon has put bonus material together from some of our...
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 9, 20191 min read


Loving the Consistently Inconsistent Partner
Dear Readers, I’m back after a long time off. Unfortunately my health battles continue and there is no help from the medical community....
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 4, 20197 min read
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