I launched my podcast project Fat Chicks On Top a few months back. I have been recording and building content since March. Its been a...

When I was in one of my basic psychology courses in undergrad, the professor described sublimation with the following example. Say you...

The theme of healing through kink has come up repeatedly in both my reading and real life a lot lately. For me, this is a touchy subject....

It’s National Mental Health Awareness Month so lets talk about power exchange and mental illness. Depending on the source, between 20 and...

News headlines are floating around about 20 percent of Millennials identifying as “non-binary.” This is based on a new study by GLAAD...

I find being agender weird. Most days, really about 98 percent of the time, I could care less about my gender. I am a feminist for...

By most accounts, unless you are a rape-y cheeto with narcissistic personality disorder, this was a shit year. People are hoping 2017...

I know that seems counter-intuitive to most people. Isn’t the role of an s-type based on giving power, sometimes total power, to a...

What is portrayed in the popular media makes a big difference. Not a profound statement,  but most people- even those who agree- often...

I have been overwhelmed by the number of stories in the past few weeks about the horrors brought about by men who did not feel like they...

I debated a lot before I decided to post this blog entry. I have been active in the LGBTQ movement for thirty years now. I know the...

People have a ton of questions about how they match up against others in bed. Most of us are confident with one skill and question our...

8?  25?  105?   300? 1,023? Is there such a thing as having too many sexual partners? Are you a sex addict? Is sex your vice? Is sex a...

I have had a bunch of conversations lately about incorporating sex into BDSM play. Some people have to have both in a session, others do...

My last post about sub space got a flood of responses. Most of the 3,000+ people who replied here and on Fetlife were very complimentary....

Image from www.korucorner.co.nz All rights reserved. When I was an undergrad, I took a course on altered states of consciousness. The...

There is a local comedian in Sacramento who does a great joke. She starts with the premise that her parents used to spank her. Now, she...