We are at the start of a new calendar year. This means folks out here with lots of resolutions to do new things, restart practices they...

Sex education is all sorts for messed up! The best we offer kids is showing them how to put a condom on a banana. To quote Dr. Sprankle:...

I work with a lot of kinky folks of all identities and levels of experience. When I talk to folks from the left side of the slash, they...

When I am on my knees, looking up at my Dom, waiting on his command, I am in complete bliss. There is something wonderful and liberating...

Whether you personally are new to kink, or you are dating someone new to kink, it is an exciting time filled with fun and learning! It...

In a most predictable move, once BDSM became a topic most American’s had heard about, abusers co-opted its language to justify their...

Listen on Spotify Finding out your partner has cheated on you is often devastating. Regardless of your relationship style (monogamous,...

One of my favorite old BritComs is Coupling (sort of the British Friends). In one of the episodes the highly sexed Patrick announces that...

One of the most fortuitous events in my life was discovering the kinky world at about the same time I started puberty. It provided me...

I love planning scenes. Figuring out the details, setting up the situations, and preparing the tools and clothing for a scene has always...

The other night I was at a poetry open mic billed as a “safe space” for the LGBTQAII community. As per the norm in such spaces, the host...

Again today, as with so many days, I came upon a thread of women bitching about “no good men left.” As with so many of these threads on...

I was invited to roast a friend’s husband for his birthday last night. She started the show by mentioning they had just finished a 27 day...

Its the most common question I see of new kinksters, “Am I doing this right?” It comes in several versions, “I think I am a Domme, but I...

8?  25?  105?   300? 1,023? Is there such a thing as having too many sexual partners? Are you a sex addict? Is sex your vice? Is sex a...

Recently I have seen a lot of memes and other social media that is similar to the above posting. They all have examples of parents...

I have had the benefit of being part of the both the queer and kink communities for a very long time now. Part of being part of sexual...