The Gift of "No."
We are at the start of a new calendar year. This means folks out here with lots of resolutions to do new things, restart practices they...
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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
- Nov 9, 2023
- 4 min
Finding Out What You Really Want from Intimacy
Sex education is all sorts for messed up! The best we offer kids is showing them how to put a condom on a banana. To quote Dr. Sprankle:...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 28, 2022
- 4 min
The #1 Thing Dom(me)s Hate!
I work with a lot of kinky folks of all identities and levels of experience. When I talk to folks from the left side of the slash, they...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 21, 2022
- 2 min
One Question Every Submissive Needs to Answer
When I am on my knees, looking up at my Dom, waiting on his command, I am in complete bliss. There is something wonderful and liberating...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 2, 2021
- 5 min
7 Tips When You Are New to Kink
Whether you personally are new to kink, or you are dating someone new to kink, it is an exciting time filled with fun and learning! It...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 29, 2021
- 4 min
7 Tips to Help You Screen For Abusers on Kink Sites
In a most predictable move, once BDSM became a topic most American’s had heard about, abusers co-opted its language to justify their...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 25, 2021
- 5 min
Do This BEFORE a Partner Cheats
Listen on Spotify Finding out your partner has cheated on you is often devastating. Regardless of your relationship style (monogamous,...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 28, 2020
- 8 min
So You Want to Try a Threesome…
One of my favorite old BritComs is Coupling (sort of the British Friends). In one of the episodes the highly sexed Patrick announces that...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 27, 2018
- 10 min
10 Things Everyone Can Learn from Kink
One of the most fortuitous events in my life was discovering the kinky world at about the same time I started puberty. It provided me...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 4, 2018
- 5 min
Planning a Scene
I love planning scenes. Figuring out the details, setting up the situations, and preparing the tools and clothing for a scene has always...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 5, 2017
- 4 min
Pronoun Wars, Part II
The other night I was at a poetry open mic billed as a “safe space” for the LGBTQAII community. As per the norm in such spaces, the host...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 2, 2017
- 5 min
Can’t Find “The Right One?” You Might be the Problem
Again today, as with so many days, I came upon a thread of women bitching about “no good men left.” As with so many of these threads on...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 6, 2016
- 5 min
Measuring Up: Part Two
I was invited to roast a friend’s husband for his birthday last night. She started the show by mentioning they had just finished a 27 day...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 25, 2016
- 3 min
Am I Doing this Right????
Its the most common question I see of new kinksters, “Am I doing this right?” It comes in several versions, “I think I am a Domme, but I...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 3, 2016
- 5 min
On Virtue and Vice
8? 25? 105? 300? 1,023? Is there such a thing as having too many sexual partners? Are you a sex addict? Is sex your vice? Is sex a...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 18, 2016
- 3 min
Parenting Beyond the Binary
Recently I have seen a lot of memes and other social media that is similar to the above posting. They all have examples of parents...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 10, 2015
- 6 min
Six Questions EVERYONE Should Answer About Sex (and 5 To Stop Asking Sexual and Gender Minorities)
I have had the benefit of being part of the both the queer and kink communities for a very long time now. Part of being part of sexual...
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