I love Halloween. Its basically the primary gay holiday in the U.S. I love dressing up, going out, having a ton of fun, and finishing the...

Okay, I get that most people not in the kink community believe that kink and BDSM only refer to sex. I get that kink and BDSM are very...

Copyright Eddy-Shinjuku. All rights reserved. I have the great pleasure of talking to lots of people about their fantasies. Some of this...

Lots of people claim to be an expert in kink and BDSM. I bring this up because recently a couple of people referred to me as an “expert.”...

Being part of the kink and BDSM community provides an alternative conception of what is a good sexual encounter.In the vanilla-ish...

We, as a society, need to talk a lot more about variants on sexuality and relationship styles. For a long time I have maintained that the...

I have been asked several times in the past few months about what I think about the growing visibility of kink. With the massive...

Now that I have been doing interviews with mainstream media folks about kink and non-monogamy, I am learning there are some pretty...

The timing of this post is prompted by a discussion currently occurring on Fetlife (major social network site for the kink community). A...

I was lucky when it came to discovering kink. There was almost no separation between my first kiss and my awareness of the kink...

I live with Bipolar I. I have since I was about 11, diagnosed at 20. It is fundamental to who I am and I have never not thought about it...

I experience language differently than a lot of people. Words have sound and meaning, and I can see them written on a page as other do,...

The more I talk to people about the kink and BDSM world, the more I realize how many people do not see this world the way I do. For some...

I am a feminist. I am a submissive. This is my choice. There is no conflict between the two for me. However, my submission is not an act...

I want to talk about perceptions versus reality of submission. There are a lot of misconceptions for both vanilla folks and newbie...

This is an open letter to anyone who has recently discovered that there is a kinky world out there and they now think they want to...

There are several avidly anti-porn groups that are doing huge social media pushes asking people to boycott 50 Shades of Grey. The general...