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One Question Every Submissive Needs to Answer
When I am on my knees, looking up at my Dom, waiting on his command, I am in complete bliss. There is something wonderful and liberating...
Rebecca Blanton
Feb 21, 20222 min read
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Identifying vs. Becoming
In the kinky world we use a lot of labels. Queer, kinky, top, bottom, Master, slave, Domme, submissive, baby girl, pet, Daddy, switch,...
Rebecca Blanton
May 22, 20184 min read
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Is Non-Binary the Future of Gender?
News headlines are floating around about 20 percent of Millennials identifying as “non-binary.” This is based on a new study by GLAAD...
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 3, 20185 min read
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Olly Olly Oxen Free
We come out today because Cleve designed and Gilbert sewed; Alvin danced And RuPaul doesn’t always wear pants. Leslie got the Stone Butch...
Rebecca Blanton
Oct 11, 20171 min read
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Non-binary: Real or Rebellion?
Hello Readers! Sorry I have been away for so long. I had a severe infection and no help from doctors. But, despite the deplorable state...
Rebecca Blanton
Sep 25, 20177 min read
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The Problem with Passing
I pass as a heterosexual cis-female and I hate that. I have always passed (well, more or less) regardless of what I wear, my hair,...
Rebecca Blanton
Aug 2, 20173 min read
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Pronoun Wars, Part II
The other night I was at a poetry open mic billed as a “safe space” for the LGBTQAII community. As per the norm in such spaces, the host...
Rebecca Blanton
Jul 5, 20174 min read
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Agender – What does that mean?
I find being agender weird. Most days, really about 98 percent of the time, I could care less about my gender. I am a feminist for...
Rebecca Blanton
May 8, 20173 min read
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In Praise of “Just a Phase”
We are living in an age where certainty is demanded. Any time someone changes their mind or expresses any level of uncertainty, people...
Rebecca Blanton
Mar 8, 20173 min read
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My Body, The Asshole
I have written before in this blog about living with and engaging in power exchange relationships while living with a mental illness. I...
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 31, 20172 min read
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My Dad, My Mom and My Strength
The first time I was really made aware of the fact that I was a “girl” was in first grade. Until this point, I had remained blissfully...
Rebecca Blanton
Jun 19, 20163 min read
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Parenting Beyond the Binary
Recently I have seen a lot of memes and other social media that is similar to the above posting. They all have examples of parents...
Rebecca Blanton
Mar 18, 20163 min read
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Halloween
I love Halloween. Its basically the primary gay holiday in the U.S. I love dressing up, going out, having a ton of fun, and finishing the...
Rebecca Blanton
Oct 20, 20154 min read
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