Rebecca BlantonJul 16, 20217 minHow Do You Create an Aftercare Plan?Aftercare is a frequently mentioned idea in kink/BDSM classes and touted as “important” for safe, sane, and consensual play. Most of the...
Rebecca BlantonOct 5, 20195 minPain and PresenceThere are different theories on how people “should” deal with pain. Some folks argue for being present with the pain. Some argue for...
Rebecca BlantonJan 22, 20185 min7 Tips for the New SwitchSo you want to try switching things up. Great! There are a lot of benefits to switching power positions (e.g., a submissive trying...
Rebecca BlantonSep 7, 20165 minTriggersTalking about “triggers” and starting posts and group discussions with “trigger warnings” is now de riguer in the kink community. It has...