How Do You Create an Aftercare Plan?
Aftercare is a frequently mentioned idea in kink/BDSM classes and touted as “important” for safe, sane, and consensual play. Most of the...
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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
- Oct 5, 2019
- 5 min
Pain and Presence
There are different theories on how people “should” deal with pain. Some folks argue for being present with the pain. Some argue for...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 22, 2018
- 5 min
7 Tips for the New Switch
So you want to try switching things up. Great! There are a lot of benefits to switching power positions (e.g., a submissive trying...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 7, 2016
- 5 min
Triggers
Talking about “triggers” and starting posts and group discussions with “trigger warnings” is now de riguer in the kink community. It has...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 24, 2015
- 4 min
Chasing the O
Being part of the kink and BDSM community provides an alternative conception of what is a good sexual encounter.In the vanilla-ish...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 6, 2015
- 9 min
Discipline, Punishment and Abuse
I went to a meeting of submissives this week and an interesting discussion question was posed: What is the difference between discipline,...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 3, 2015
- 8 min
Kink Visibility
I have been asked several times in the past few months about what I think about the growing visibility of kink. With the massive...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 16, 2015
- 9 min
10 Things for Newbies to Think About
I was lucky when it came to discovering kink. There was almost no separation between my first kiss and my awareness of the kink...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 15, 2015
- 6 min
Loving a Sub with Mental Illness
I live with Bipolar I. I have since I was about 11, diagnosed at 20. It is fundamental to who I am and I have never not thought about it...
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