If you have spent any time on kink blogs, podcasts, or in a class, you have heard people mention “head space.” Head space refers to the...

There are different theories on how people “should” deal with pain. Some folks argue for being present with the pain. Some argue for...

I can remember the first time I read Macho Sluts by Pat Califia. While all the sex was really hot, a few of the stories stood out because...

“We need to talk.” Its the sentence many of us live in fear of hearing from our partners. When we get a text or a message or a partner...

I love planning scenes. Figuring out the details, setting up the situations, and preparing the tools and clothing for a scene has always...