Howdy readers! I taught my “Deepening Your Submission” workshop last night through Wicked Grounds Annex. Participants asked that I put...

Guest Post by Jett Oxy Perhaps you have always fantasized about binding balls, but not quite sure about your ability to pull it off?...

There are different theories on how people “should” deal with pain. Some folks argue for being present with the pain. Some argue for...

There is the myth that the Inuit have some amazing number of words for snow. They don’t- but we have all heard the myth. The concept is...

Guest Post By: Spices of Lust Your BDSM experience is personal to you — and your partners. It’s meant to be whatever you make of it, and...

I adore having protocols in a relationship. Those rules and rituals power exchange couples create to serve their relationship provide a...

Shyness is something I have had a problem with personally. However, I have had several partners who are deeply reticent to talk about...

Journaling is a common communication technique recommended in the kink community. However, most of us hate to write. I include myself in...

“We need to talk.” Its the sentence many of us live in fear of hearing from our partners. When we get a text or a message or a partner...

Being a service sub myself, much of my joy in life comes from caring for other people. I get an absurd level of joy from things like...

I can’t believe I haven’t written a blog post on topping from the bottom! How could I be so remiss of addressing a topic which comes up...

In the kinky world we use a lot of labels. Queer, kinky, top, bottom, Master, slave, Domme, submissive, baby girl, pet, Daddy, switch,...

It’s National Mental Health Awareness Month so lets talk about power exchange and mental illness. Depending on the source, between 20 and...

Power exchange relationships have many similarities to vanilla relationships. Both require kindness, understanding, communication, and...

So you want to try switching things up. Great! There are a lot of benefits to switching power positions (e.g., a submissive trying...

A couple of months ago I was performing with Bawdy Storytelling and had the great pleasure of hearing Race Bannon tell a story about the...

We are living in an age where certainty is demanded. Any time someone changes their mind or expresses any level of uncertainty, people...

Submissives are some of the most seductive people in the world. Regardless of what we look like, if we are introverts or extroverts, or...

Okay ladies, let’s talk about hair. You know, the hair down there. When I went back out on the dating scene about five years ago I...

I know that seems counter-intuitive to most people. Isn’t the role of an s-type based on giving power, sometimes total power, to a...