I love sex! I do. And I think sex is important to most healthy romantic relationships. The old adage is sex is about ten percent of any...

Okay ladies, let’s talk about hair. You know, the hair down there. When I went back out on the dating scene about five years ago I...

People who practice ethical non-monogamy talk a lot about what it means to be ethical in a non-monogamous relationship. But what about...

Immediacy is valued by many. We want what we want and we want it now! The whole concept of delayed gratification has become nearly...

Let’s talk STIs. Sexually Transmitted Infections. I know, totally not sexy. I get it. You only want certain types of dripping going on...

When someone says they were raped, many people ask, “So, did you say ‘no?'” It is a common question in court and in police...

First, let me get a few things in the open (if you are not already familiar). One, I like sex. I like it a lot and believe it should be...

There are subtle and not so subtle signs a relationship won’t work out. The primary one I have learned to look for over the years is...

8?  25?  105?   300? 1,023? Is there such a thing as having too many sexual partners? Are you a sex addict? Is sex your vice? Is sex a...

We need to talk to our kids about how to watch porn. I have had this conversation a lot since I put out my book last year. I think it is...

I write a lot about interracial dating and am open that I tend to date Black men. I want to address the personal ads and online dating...

American’s are weird about sex. Very weird. We use sex to sell everything in America from hamburgers to perfume to children’s toys. We...

I have been away from this blog for a couple of weeks due to illness. For two and a half years I have been trying to get some chronic...

First, let me make clear that the way I am using “unicorn” here is as people do in the polyamory community: a bisexual woman seeking a...

Okay, yes, I have done a lot of things. And yes, I have done a lot of people. And sure, I talk about some of it. But, no I haven’t done...

If you practice consensual non-monogamy, can you cheat? The short answer is, “Yes.” I practice ethical non-monogamy. My friends who are...

Guys, some of us girls have found out your secrets. We know that there are a lot of you who use online dating sites to find Ms. Right Now...