Most of BDSM and kink skills focus on techniques for different types of play (e.g., flogging, spanking). However, the world of BDSM is...

When you are submissive or enjoy being submissive with a partner, navigating your own desires can be tricky. As submissives, we sometime...

When I am on my knees, looking up at my Dom, waiting on his command, I am in complete bliss. There is something wonderful and liberating...

Ah, politicians are once again engaging in a favorite past-time: fanning fears of massive child predator rings as a pretense to get rid...

One of the most difficult issues of being a submissive or other s-type is having a disagreement with your dominant. Power exchange...

If you are new-ish to kink you may be under the impression that power exchange and kink are specifically for sex and intimate play time....

Listen on Spotify Finding out your partner has cheated on you is often devastating. Regardless of your relationship style (monogamous,...

I love it when I come across people writing about submission in a deep and thoughtful way! If you have not discovered The Pleasure Coach,...

I am so excited to announce I will be working with Wicked Grounds to host “30 Days of Kinky Self-Discovery” in January 2021. So many...

With the 2020 election just days from now, I have spent an enormous amount of time thinking about power: structural power, institutional...

Guest Post By: Spices of Lust Your BDSM experience is personal to you — and your partners. It’s meant to be whatever you make of it, and...

I adore having protocols in a relationship. Those rules and rituals power exchange couples create to serve their relationship provide a...

Healthy couples fight. Most healthy couples don’t fight often, but disagreements do arise, emotions heighten and we fight. Its actually a...

For those of you unfamiliar with Fetlife, it is a social media site for kinky folks (kinky defined very broadly). Currently, there is a...

The other night I was at a poetry open mic billed as a “safe space” for the LGBTQAII community. As per the norm in such spaces, the host...

This morning Trump released a barrage of tweets speculating that former beauty queen Machado had made a sex tape. Of course, as with most...

“Submission is a gift.” I hear that phrase constantly in the kink community. I hear submissives say it. I hear Dom(me)s say it. Switches...

I have had a lot of conversations with people lately about body image and work. My public image and my work is largely based around sex...

This year marks 30 years of activism for me. In 1986 I started my first volunteer gig with and HIV/AIDS outreach and support organization...

I have had a bunch of conversations lately about incorporating sex into BDSM play. Some people have to have both in a session, others do...