Rebecca BlantonAug 2, 20215 min7 Tips When You Are New to KinkWhether you personally are new to kink, or you are dating someone new to kink, it is an exciting time filled with fun and learning! It...
Rebecca BlantonJan 11, 20194 minWhat Owning a Cat Taught Me About Kink, Polyam, and SexI’ll be honest, I have never been a huge cat fan. I mean, you adopt this pet who poos in your house, who is petty and controlling, and...
Rebecca BlantonNov 21, 20177 minPower of ApologiesI have been thinking a lot about apologies lately. Nationally, men have been issuing varying forms of apologies for sexually harassing...
Rebecca BlantonMar 8, 20173 minIn Praise of “Just a Phase”We are living in an age where certainty is demanded. Any time someone changes their mind or expresses any level of uncertainty, people...
Rebecca BlantonSep 26, 20167 minConsent: 2016 sstyleOne of the best things about the kink community is that it places consent front and center of community values. Not only do groups talk...
Rebecca BlantonApr 26, 20163 minIs This Weird???Simple answer… yes, yes it is. Regardless of what you do, it is weird to someone. One the the most shocking things I do or say is that I...
Rebecca BlantonJul 16, 20159 min10 Things for Newbies to Think AboutI was lucky when it came to discovering kink. There was almost no separation between my first kiss and my awareness of the kink...
Rebecca BlantonApr 29, 20157 minMyths About SubmissionI want to talk about perceptions versus reality of submission. There are a lot of misconceptions for both vanilla folks and newbie...
Rebecca BlantonFeb 22, 20158 minNew to Kink? Curios about BDSM? Start hereThis is an open letter to anyone who has recently discovered that there is a kinky world out there and they now think they want to...