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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog covering kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a submissive or bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.

Rebecca Blanton

Aug 21, 2022
1 min

Ayzad: Embracing Duende

https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-bhbzt-12a4b26 Guest: Ayzad Former Italian journalist turned kink writer and coach, Ayzad joins Fat Chicks on Top to talk about old vs new approaches to kink, the duend e of sex and what he sees as missing from the modern approach, and the intersection of politics, Catholicism, and sexuality in Italy. Website and Socials Ayzad.com @Ayzad on Twitter @Ayzad_ Official on Instagram —-more—- Fat Chicks on Top merchandise is now available at Au

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Rebecca Blanton

Aug 8, 2022
1 min

Tallulah Breslin:Finding Your Voice

https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-uvrgw-1293b1f Guest: Tallulah Breslin, gender-affirming voice coach Tallulah Breslin joins Fat Chicks on Top to talk about gender-affirming voice coaching and how people find their voice. Voice is critical for our identities and how we interact with folks. Tallulah talks the science and art of finding your finished voice to match who you want to be. Socials and Websites Website: https://www.mantravoice.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook

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Rebecca Blanton

Jul 17, 2022
1 min

Mir Green: Caffinatrix

https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-bfdtq-1275824 Guest: Mir Green, Owner of Wicked Grounds and kink educator Mir Green joins Fat Chicks on Top to talk about the intersection of kink identities, queerness, and politics. Tune in to find out how they organized the community to keep Starbucks from building in the Leather District in San Francisco, grouwing up queer in a 3-stoplight town in the dessert, the importance of community, and crushing the patriarchy. This episode wil

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Rebecca Blanton

Jun 19, 2022
1 min

Dulcinea Pitagora: Kink Doctor

Dr. Dulcinea Pitagora https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-qy28i-1254722 Guest: Dulcinea Pitagora, aka The Kink Doctor Dr. Dulcinea Pitagora joins Fat Chicks on Top to talk about the academic and spiritual understanding of kink. From early work as a pro-Domme in NYC to their academic work on sub-space, the heteronormativity of ano-receptive men in kink, and more! Auntie Vice gets to geek-out in conversation with another Ph.D. delving into the nuances of kink, trust, and con

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Rebecca Blanton

Jun 5, 2022
1 min

Rahim Thawer:Gay, Muslim, and Fabulous!

https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-mfj2a-12413e4 Guest: Rahim Thawer, therapist, college professor Rahim Thawer is a therapist focusing on LGBTQ folks witha sub-specialty in shame. He has lived in several countries and joins Fat Chicks to talk about queerness, shame, envy, and community. He provides insight into the role circut parties play in gay life around the world. He talks about the intersecting identities of being Muslim and gay. Sites and Social Media: www.LadyAti

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Rebecca Blanton

May 22, 2022
1 min

Dabby Longlegs: Learning to be Embodied

https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-xu7tt-1231ac8 Guest: Dabby Longlegs, burlesque and drag performer Dabby Longlegs, burlesque, drag, and pole performer joins Fat Chicks to talk about working as a trans performer. Dabby delves into their gender affirmation surgeries (top surgery, hystorectomy), coming into their body, and performing. Dabby talks about being raised in a conservative, religious family; how it shaped their identity; shame; and learning to come into themselve

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Rebecca Blanton

Apr 24, 2022
1 min

Gretchen Felker-Martin: Divine Filth

https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-kwgdh-120c5fd Guest: Gretchen Felker-Martin This episode, Gretchen Felker-Martin author of Manhunt and host of “Deadlights Theater” on Patreon, joins Auntie Vice to talk horror, fatness, transness, and the reaction to her novel Manhunt. Instagram @gretchenfelkermartin Twitter @Scumbelievable Instagram @GretchenFelkerMartin For one month free premium service on Newsly, use code FC0T #rel #Health #fat #nonbinary #bodypositive #Queer #LGBTQ

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Rebecca Blanton

Mar 5, 2022
1 min

Xavier Bettencourt: So Gay!

https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-6vy5n-11c3ab6 Episode 202 Title: Xavier Bettencourt: So Gay! Guest: Xavier Bettencourt, comedian and drag performer Xavier re-visits FCOT to update us about his life in the last two and a half years since we first interviewed him. Interview 1, 2019. First interview with Xavier at STAB Comedy theater with guest co-host Wendy Lewis. Xavier talks comedy, body-positivity, and gender bending dressing. Interview 2, 2022. (Time mark 20:00) Xavi

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25 Books to Read & 25 Movies to Watch this PRIDE Month

Rebecca Blanton

Jun 4, 2021
2 min

25 Books to Read & 25 Movies to Watch this PRIDE Month

Books This is a list of queer books that have stayed with me. I provide only the citation and genre so that you can enjoy them without preconceptions. Allison, Dorothy. (1985). Bastard Out of Carolina. fiction Baldwin, James. Giovanni’s Room. fiction Bechdel, Allison. (2008). The Essential Dykes to Watch Out For. graphic novel Brown, Rita Mae. (2014). RubyFruit Jungle. fiction/romance Califia, Pat and Robin Davies. (2012). Public Sex: The Culture of Radical Sex. nonficiton Ch

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5 Best Sex Toys to Rock Your Queer World

Rebecca Blanton

Jul 30, 2020
3 min

5 Best Sex Toys to Rock Your Queer World

Guest Post by Peter Minkoff Peter Minkoff is a writer for High Style Life in Australia (and has great advice, IMHO– Auntie Vice) If nothing else, staying at home and distancing from other people can do wonders for our sex life. You don’t believe it? Well, you should get yourself some new sex toys and go with the flow. All kidding aside, you haven’t experimented with sex toys or sex in general yet, then this is definitely the time to do it. Plenty of people dislike the idea of

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I’m Tired. Can We Just Shut Up and Fuck?

Rebecca Blanton

Jul 2, 2019
6 min

I’m Tired. Can We Just Shut Up and Fuck?

I’m feeling old and crotchety after a month of Pride. Maybe its because I have been doing Pride for more than three decades and it is not as bright and shiny as it used to be. Maybe its because now that I am older and sicker, 30 days is a long time to do all things rainbow. Maybe its that I have had an unrelenting headache for nine months now. Whatever it is, I just want us all to shut up and fuck now. I am thrilled there are several new generations of queer activists up in a

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Rebecca Blanton

May 25, 2019
1 min

What a Drag!

https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-4nqff-b26bb3 Episode 15: What a Drag! Host: Auntie Vice, Amy Estes Guests: Eartha Tremors (of the Windy City Imperial Court), Katori Knight (guest performer with the Rebel Kings), and Shahera Hyatt (comic) Drag is so much more than what we see on RuPaul’s Drag Race. Eartha Tremors of the Windy City Imperial Court joins Auntie Vice to chat about the Court’s history, purpose and drag more broadly. Katori Knight talks about performing as a

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Rebecca Blanton

Mar 25, 2019
1 min

Episode 12: Connections

https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-in6zm-abed6f Co-Hosts: Auntie Vice and Erica Ambrin Guests: Koe Creation, Ali Yada Guest co-host Erica Ambrin talks to Auntie Vice about music, connecting to people through love, and drops an amazing acapella song. Koe Creation (author, educator) talks about their new memoir This Heart Holds Many which covers their childhood growing up in a polyamours, sex-positive family in the Pacific Northwest. Ali Yada (comic, bubbelologist) talks ab

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Bonus Episdoe! NonBinary People on NonBinary Identity

Rebecca Blanton

Mar 20, 2019
1 min

Bonus Episdoe! NonBinary People on NonBinary Identity

https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-9dzt3-ab7954 Host: Auntie Vice Guests: Renair Amin and Koe Creation Auntie Vice identifies as agender and Renair Amin and Koe Creation identify as genderfluid. These terms are nebulous and not well understood by many people. Hear three nonbinary folks from very different backgrounds discuss what it means to be nonbinary and genderfluid. Share this: Tweet Email Print #culture #LGBTQ #nonbinary #Queer

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Bonus Clips! Alice in Bondageland and Bevin

Rebecca Blanton

Jan 9, 2019
1 min

Bonus Clips! Alice in Bondageland and Bevin

https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-2jizs-a4090b Bonus Clips!! Our producer CharRon has put bonus material together from some of our most interesting guests. Alice in Bondageland talks pet play and why people would be into kink. Bevin (Fat Kids Dance Party) talks about the importance of self-care and how she goes about self-care with her incredibly demanding schedule. #kink #bdsm #podcast #petplay #relationships #selfcare #bodypositive #sexpositive #love #health #fat #wome

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Rebecca Blanton

May 22, 2018
4 min

Identifying vs. Becoming

In the kinky world we use a lot of labels. Queer, kinky, top, bottom, Master, slave, Domme, submissive, baby girl, pet, Daddy, switch, demisexual, bisexual, heterosexual, homosexual, cis, trans, agender, nonbinary, it goes on. While labels have a purpose, they are also problematic. Labels are great in that they provide a shorthand for us to identify something about ourselves and connect with others using this shorthand. For example, if I am talking to another person who has t

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Rebecca Blanton

Feb 4, 2018
4 min

Adding the K to “LGBTQ+” – NO

There is a new call to add a K for “kink” to the LGBTQ+ acronym. This call for more inclusion has highlighted a couple of issues in both the queer and kink communities. To be clear, I am against adding kink to the LGBTQ acronym and by extension, the groups which work on behalf of us queers for political rights. Failure to Know Our History The call is promoted by folks who believe the LGBTQ+ community should be inclusive of all groups with any form of alternative sexuality or

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Rebecca Blanton

Jan 8, 2018
6 min

Consent 201

It’s great that vanilla America is finally discovering the idea of consent. Not our judges or politicians apparently, but a large number of non-kinkly folks are starting to think about sex and consent in a way they never have. Articles in widely read papers about the idea of consent and things like Tea and Consent going viral actually speaks volumes about the cultural shifting that is taking place. Less than two years ago I was submitting articles about consent to publication

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Rebecca Blanton

Oct 11, 2017
1 min

Olly Olly Oxen Free

We come out today because Cleve designed and Gilbert sewed; Alvin danced And RuPaul doesn’t always wear pants. Leslie got the Stone Butch Blues Patrick let Machos Sluts be his muse. Because Harvey led, Sheila did too. Larry did while making conservatives go “boo hoo.” Janet and Laverne took a stand. before even most queers would lend them a hand. Because queens and fairies Fought arm in arm Tired of police doing them harm. Because Mattachine and Daughters of Blitius got sick

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Rebecca Blanton

Aug 2, 2017
3 min

The Problem with Passing

I pass as a heterosexual cis-female and I hate that. I have always passed (well, more or less) regardless of what I wear, my hair, binders, softees, make-up on and off… I pass. Sure, there have been periods of time when I have worked really hard to not pass and yes, I get mistaken for a man a lot. But by and large people see me and think I’m just another heterosexual cis-female. The older I get, the more I pass. I put on weight in my 30s and strapping down DDs is a lot tricki

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