Confession
April is National Poetry Month! In Sacramento, there are a bunch of poets celebrating by doing guerrilla performances of their work. Here...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 3, 2016
- 5 min
On Virtue and Vice
8? 25? 105? 300? 1,023? Is there such a thing as having too many sexual partners? Are you a sex addict? Is sex your vice? Is sex a...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 22, 2016
- 6 min
Talk to Your Kids About Porn!
We need to talk to our kids about how to watch porn. I have had this conversation a lot since I put out my book last year. I think it is...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 18, 2016
- 3 min
Parenting Beyond the Binary
Recently I have seen a lot of memes and other social media that is similar to the above posting. They all have examples of parents...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 10, 2016
- 5 min
Feminist Porn?
Must all porn oppress women? Can porn be freeing and uplifting for women? What the hell is “feminist porn?” I have written about feminism...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 4, 2016
- 7 min
Seeking BBC…
I write a lot about interracial dating and am open that I tend to date Black men. I want to address the personal ads and online dating...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 1, 2016
- 5 min
Is Submission a Gift?
“Submission is a gift.” I hear that phrase constantly in the kink community. I hear submissives say it. I hear Dom(me)s say it. Switches...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 26, 2016
- 5 min
Loving Pink and Being a Girl
I have been called out on this blog several times for referring to myself as a “girl.” There are people out there, mostly women, who hate...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 22, 2016
- 5 min
Sex Is Fundamental
American’s are weird about sex. Very weird. We use sex to sell everything in America from hamburgers to perfume to children’s toys. We...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 18, 2016
- 6 min
In Sickness and In Health…
I have been away from this blog for a couple of weeks due to illness. For two and a half years I have been trying to get some chronic...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 26, 2016
- 5 min
Unicorn Hunters
First, let me make clear that the way I am using “unicorn” here is as people do in the polyamory community: a bisexual woman seeking a...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 18, 2016
- 5 min
The Good, the Bad, the Ugly
I want to talk about sources and research about BDSM and D/s relationships. With the development of the Internet, it has become very easy...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 11, 2016
- 3 min
New Rape Prevention Curriculum
The first time I underwent education to prevent rape was in 7th grade. I was 11 years old. The girls PE class was given a week of...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 10, 2016
- 3 min
Body Confident? Hell no!
I have had a lot of conversations with people lately about body image and work. My public image and my work is largely based around sex...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 4, 2016
- 5 min
30th Anniversary
This year marks 30 years of activism for me. In 1986 I started my first volunteer gig with and HIV/AIDS outreach and support organization...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Dec 27, 2015
- 4 min
You’ve Done Everything!!!
Okay, yes, I have done a lot of things. And yes, I have done a lot of people. And sure, I talk about some of it. But, no I haven’t done...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Dec 21, 2015
- 3 min
Cheating
If you practice consensual non-monogamy, can you cheat? The short answer is, “Yes.” I practice ethical non-monogamy. My friends who are...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Dec 10, 2015
- 5 min
Is Sex Always Part of BDSM?
I have had a bunch of conversations lately about incorporating sex into BDSM play. Some people have to have both in a session, others do...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Dec 3, 2015
- 2 min
Geeks, Nerds, Grammar Nazi’s and Kink
http://imgs.xkcd.com/comics/grownups.png xkcd.com/150/ In many, many ways I am a nerd. I am an academic and still default to researching...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Nov 30, 2015
- 4 min
World AIDS Day
HIV/AIDS has played a prominent role in my life. The first volunteer work I started with at 13 was volunteering for an AIDS organization...
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