There is no safe or "safer" way to erotically choke someone. Louder for those of you with earbuds in: THERE IS NO SAFE OR "SAFER" WAY TO...

Masturbation is inherently anti-capitalist. I've been playing with that concept for the last month and have come to really believe that...

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The most common advice a sex ed writer (including myself) gives for any question is to communicate. Communication about needs, desires,...

The world has been sending me messages that y'all are curious about sex and menopause and peri-menopause. I've received multiple emails...

If you are a frequent reader of sex advice columns, you will quickly come to notice the number of letters which begin “I am so...

We are at the start of a new calendar year. This means folks out here with lots of resolutions to do new things, restart practices they...

Dear Readers: Thank you for staying with me for the year! Whether you recently found me or you are a long-term reader, I appreciate you...

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Sex education is all sorts for messed up! The best we offer kids is showing them how to put a condom on a banana. To quote Dr. Sprankle:...

I will get back to posts about developing your desires shortly. There is currently a developing issue in the kink education world I feel...

I've seen an increasing number of studies demonstrating that female (researchers only asked cis women) desire declines in long term...

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There are as many reasons people enjoy submission as there are folks who submit in sex or relationships. Our desires for power exchange...

The physical activities of kink - spanking, tying up people, blindfolds- are what most folks think this lifestyle is all about. Putting...

Anxiety is a common mental health issue. Protocols in a relationship can help reduce and manage it.

So often newer kinky folks hold up the 24/7 dynamic as the "pinnacle" of kinky relationships. The fantasy of this dynamic is that it...

Sponsored by LoveHoney With the New Year just around the corner, many of us will be working on our resolutions for 2023. But in the midst...

As we close one calendar year and move into the next, many of us take time to evaluate and make goals or wishes for the coming year. If...