Rebecca BlantonOct 20, 20165 minS-type Must be AutonomousI know that seems counter-intuitive to most people. Isn’t the role of an s-type based on giving power, sometimes total power, to a...
Rebecca BlantonOct 11, 20165 minIs BDSM Inescapably Racist?I love the BDSM community. I love kink. It is integral to who I am and how I see the world. I love the aesthetic, the values, and the...
Rebecca BlantonSep 26, 20167 minConsent: 2016 sstyleOne of the best things about the kink community is that it places consent front and center of community values. Not only do groups talk...
Rebecca BlantonSep 12, 20164 minOn CertaintyAt some point in the last decade culture in the United States started demanding that people be certain about everything. We collectively...