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Natural Management of Mental Illness (and what no one tells you)
What you don't know about managing mental illness with natural methods.
Rebecca Blanton
Feb 246 min read
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Yes/No/Maybe List for Mental Health Symtpoms
Helpful tool for identifying the symptoms you have and what symptoms you are comfortable with in an intimate partner
Rebecca Blanton
Sep 3, 20244 min read
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This Could Save Your Life!
Kink play can be intense! That is part of the fun of it. We play physically and psychologically hard. Weather you are into impact play,...
Rebecca Blanton
Jul 26, 20226 min read
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Things Are Terrifying! How Do I Keep Going?
I was lucky enough to get to interview Mir Green from Wicked Grounds today and it helped me refine a few thoughts I have been playing...
Rebecca Blanton
Jul 11, 20225 min read
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Should Submissives Express THEIR Needs?
When you are submissive or enjoy being submissive with a partner, navigating your own desires can be tricky. As submissives, we sometime...
Rebecca Blanton
Mar 15, 20223 min read
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Dating in an On-going Pandemic
Being single, or at least being in a position to date, during the pandemic is challenging. We all crave human touch and interaction. We...
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 12, 20224 min read
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Options Other Than Faking Orgasms
If you read much sex writing or feminist think pieces you are probably innunadate with work on the ‘orgasm gap’ and the admonition to...
Rebecca Blanton
Sep 2, 20214 min read
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How Do You Create an Aftercare Plan?
Aftercare is a frequently mentioned idea in kink/BDSM classes and touted as “important” for safe, sane, and consensual play. Most of the...
Rebecca Blanton
Jul 16, 20217 min read
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Vaginal Dryness? It’s More Than “Just Add Lube”
I am a huge fan of lube as a normal part of sex. I have been using it since I discovered it in my teens. It is essential for fisting,...
Rebecca Blanton
Nov 30, 20204 min read
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How Your Body and Sex Appeal Change as You Age
Guest Post By Peter Minkoff As we age, many things will unavoidably change – for the better of the worse. But you know what? Even though...
Rebecca Blanton
Sep 17, 20203 min read
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Pain. The Good, The Bad, the Fun!
There is the myth that the Inuit have some amazing number of words for snow. They don’t- but we have all heard the myth. The concept is...
Rebecca Blanton
Sep 14, 20195 min read
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Submissives and Self Care
Being a service sub myself, much of my joy in life comes from caring for other people. I get an absurd level of joy from things like...
Rebecca Blanton
Mar 8, 20194 min read
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Loving the Consistently Inconsistent Partner
Dear Readers, I’m back after a long time off. Unfortunately my health battles continue and there is no help from the medical community....
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 4, 20197 min read
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Episode 9: 40!!!
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-gpaia-9ee5de 40!!! Guests: Evie Vane (author, blogger) and Tina Hayes (Belly Dancer/Model) Auntie...
Rebecca Blanton
Nov 11, 20181 min read
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Sexual Healing (part 2)
When I was in one of my basic psychology courses in undergrad, the professor described sublimation with the following example. Say you...
Rebecca Blanton
Jul 12, 20185 min read
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Sexual Healing (part 1)
The theme of healing through kink has come up repeatedly in both my reading and real life a lot lately. For me, this is a touchy subject....
Rebecca Blanton
Jun 27, 20185 min read
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Top 10 Tips for Loving Someone Loving with Mental Illness
It’s National Mental Health Awareness Month so lets talk about power exchange and mental illness. Depending on the source, between 20 and...
Rebecca Blanton
May 17, 20186 min read
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The Submissive’s Body & Chronic Pain
The submissive’s body is a unique thing. Our body is ours, first and foremost. We have the right and the responsibility to keep it safe....
Rebecca Blanton
Oct 23, 20177 min read
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My Body, The Asshole
I have written before in this blog about living with and engaging in power exchange relationships while living with a mental illness. I...
Rebecca Blanton
Jan 31, 20172 min read
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It Burns When I Pee!!!
Let’s talk STIs. Sexually Transmitted Infections. I know, totally not sexy. I get it. You only want certain types of dripping going on...
Rebecca Blanton
Nov 27, 20165 min read
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