What you don't know about managing mental illness with natural methods.

Helpful tool for identifying the symptoms you have and what symptoms you are comfortable with in an intimate partner

Kink play can be intense! That is part of the fun of it. We play physically and psychologically hard. Weather you are into impact play,...

I was lucky enough to get to interview Mir Green from Wicked Grounds today and it helped me refine a few thoughts I have been playing...

When you are submissive or enjoy being submissive with a partner, navigating your own desires can be tricky. As submissives, we sometime...

Being single, or at least being in a position to date, during the pandemic is challenging. We all crave human touch and interaction. We...

If you read much sex writing or feminist think pieces you are probably innunadate with work on the ‘orgasm gap’ and the admonition to...

Aftercare is a frequently mentioned idea in kink/BDSM classes and touted as “important” for safe, sane, and consensual play. Most of the...

I am a huge fan of lube as a normal part of sex. I have been using it since I discovered it in my teens. It is essential for fisting,...

Guest Post By Peter Minkoff As we age, many things will unavoidably change – for the better of the worse. But you know what? Even though...

There is the myth that the Inuit have some amazing number of words for snow. They don’t- but we have all heard the myth. The concept is...

Being a service sub myself, much of my joy in life comes from caring for other people. I get an absurd level of joy from things like...

Dear Readers, I’m back after a long time off. Unfortunately my health battles continue and there is no help from the medical community....

https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-gpaia-9ee5de 40!!! Guests: Evie Vane (author, blogger) and Tina Hayes (Belly Dancer/Model) Auntie...

When I was in one of my basic psychology courses in undergrad, the professor described sublimation with the following example. Say you...

The theme of healing through kink has come up repeatedly in both my reading and real life a lot lately. For me, this is a touchy subject....

It’s National Mental Health Awareness Month so lets talk about power exchange and mental illness. Depending on the source, between 20 and...

The submissive’s body is a unique thing. Our body is ours, first and foremost. We have the right and the responsibility to keep it safe....

I have written before in this blog about living with and engaging in power exchange relationships while living with a mental illness. I...

Let’s talk STIs. Sexually Transmitted Infections. I know, totally not sexy. I get it. You only want certain types of dripping going on...