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Kink play can be intense! That is part of the fun of it. We play physically and psychologically hard. Weather you are into impact play,...
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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog about submission, kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 11, 2022
- 5 min
Things Are Terrifying! How Do I Keep Going?
I was lucky enough to get to interview Mir Green from Wicked Grounds today and it helped me refine a few thoughts I have been playing...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 15, 2022
- 3 min
Should Submissives Express THEIR Needs?
When you are submissive or enjoy being submissive with a partner, navigating your own desires can be tricky. As submissives, we sometime...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 12, 2022
- 4 min
Dating in an On-going Pandemic
Being single, or at least being in a position to date, during the pandemic is challenging. We all crave human touch and interaction. We...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 2, 2021
- 4 min
Options Other Than Faking Orgasms
If you read much sex writing or feminist think pieces you are probably innunadate with work on the ‘orgasm gap’ and the admonition to...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 16, 2021
- 7 min
How Do You Create an Aftercare Plan?
Aftercare is a frequently mentioned idea in kink/BDSM classes and touted as “important” for safe, sane, and consensual play. Most of the...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Nov 30, 2020
- 4 min
Vaginal Dryness? It’s More Than “Just Add Lube”
I am a huge fan of lube as a normal part of sex. I have been using it since I discovered it in my teens. It is essential for fisting,...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 17, 2020
- 3 min
How Your Body and Sex Appeal Change as You Age
Guest Post By Peter Minkoff As we age, many things will unavoidably change – for the better of the worse. But you know what? Even though...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 14, 2019
- 5 min
Pain. The Good, The Bad, the Fun!
There is the myth that the Inuit have some amazing number of words for snow. They don’t- but we have all heard the myth. The concept is...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Mar 8, 2019
- 4 min
Submissives and Self Care
Being a service sub myself, much of my joy in life comes from caring for other people. I get an absurd level of joy from things like...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 4, 2019
- 7 min
Loving the Consistently Inconsistent Partner
Dear Readers, I’m back after a long time off. Unfortunately my health battles continue and there is no help from the medical community....
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Rebecca Blanton
- Nov 11, 2018
- 1 min
Episode 9: 40!!!
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-gpaia-9ee5de 40!!! Guests: Evie Vane (author, blogger) and Tina Hayes (Belly Dancer/Model) Auntie...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 12, 2018
- 5 min
Sexual Healing (part 2)
When I was in one of my basic psychology courses in undergrad, the professor described sublimation with the following example. Say you...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 27, 2018
- 5 min
Sexual Healing (part 1)
The theme of healing through kink has come up repeatedly in both my reading and real life a lot lately. For me, this is a touchy subject....
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 17, 2018
- 6 min
Top 10 Tips for Loving Someone Loving with Mental Illness
It’s National Mental Health Awareness Month so lets talk about power exchange and mental illness. Depending on the source, between 20 and...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Oct 23, 2017
- 7 min
The Submissive’s Body & Chronic Pain
The submissive’s body is a unique thing. Our body is ours, first and foremost. We have the right and the responsibility to keep it safe....
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 31, 2017
- 2 min
My Body, The Asshole
I have written before in this blog about living with and engaging in power exchange relationships while living with a mental illness. I...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Nov 27, 2016
- 5 min
It Burns When I Pee!!!
Let’s talk STIs. Sexually Transmitted Infections. I know, totally not sexy. I get it. You only want certain types of dripping going on...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 2, 2016
- 5 min
D-types and Mental Illness
After teaching my class “Power Exchange and Mental Illness” several times and corresponding with folks online who have read my writing...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 6, 2016
- 4 min
Submission and Mental Illness
My first serious girlfriend told me I was not worth the risk to marry because I had Bipolar. She knew this when we got together. Still,...
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