I've seen an increasing number of studies demonstrating that female (researchers only asked cis women) desire declines in long term...

As we close one calendar year and move into the next, many of us take time to evaluate and make goals or wishes for the coming year. If...

It is almost the end of 2021. I know mine has been exhausting. While the career aspect is going strong and health is slowly improving,...

Physical accessibility is only part of the picture when it comes to making spaces and events accessible. That is often the easy part! If...

I am so excited to announce I will be working with Wicked Grounds to host “30 Days of Kinky Self-Discovery” in January 2021. So many...

A formatted and printable version of this post is located here: 30 days of kinky self-discoveryDownload I’ll be honest. I have been...

One of the most fortuitous events in my life was discovering the kinky world at about the same time I started puberty. It provided me...

I love planning scenes. Figuring out the details, setting up the situations, and preparing the tools and clothing for a scene has always...

I have been thinking a lot about apologies lately. Nationally, men have been issuing varying forms of apologies for sexually harassing...

What is portrayed in the popular media makes a big difference. Not a profound statement,  but most people- even those who agree- often...

We need to talk to our kids about how to watch porn. I have had this conversation a lot since I put out my book last year. I think it is...

I want to talk about sources and research about BDSM and D/s relationships. With the development of the Internet, it has become very easy...

http://imgs.xkcd.com/comics/grownups.png xkcd.com/150/ In many, many ways I am a nerd. I am an academic and still default to researching...

Lots of people claim to be an expert in kink and BDSM. I bring this up because recently a couple of people referred to me as an “expert.”...

I will begin by saying that I am thrilled five of the members of the Supreme Court were enlightened enough to understand that gay...