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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 12, 20244 min read
Erotic Choking 101
There is no safe or "safer" way to erotically choke someone. Louder for those of you with earbuds in: THERE IS NO SAFE OR "SAFER" WAY TO...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 4, 20212 min read
25 Books to Read & 25 Movies to Watch this PRIDE Month
Books This is a list of queer books that have stayed with me. I provide only the citation and genre so that you can enjoy them without...
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 19, 20206 min read
5 Ways BDSM Will Improve Your Life
Most people think BDSM is just about the sex. It is often reduced to sexual and sexualized acts, especially in mainstream media...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 31, 20183 min read
What 100 Hours of Talking to Sexy Peeps Taught Me
I launched my podcast project Fat Chicks On Top a few months back. I have been recording and building content since March. Its been a...
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 25, 20188 min read
Fetlife Protest Isn’t Just a “Feminist Thing”
For those of you unfamiliar with Fetlife, it is a social media site for kinky folks (kinky defined very broadly). Currently, there is a...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 3, 20185 min read
Is Non-Binary the Future of Gender?
News headlines are floating around about 20 percent of Millennials identifying as “non-binary.” This is based on a new study by GLAAD...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 28, 20175 min read
Hef, Playboy, & American Sex
With the passing of Hugh Hefner today, lots of sex writers and educators are reflecting on his influence on their lives and work. It is...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 22, 20174 min read
Sex, Lies, and Videotape
Lately I feel like I am watching one of those suspense or horror films where the protagonist makes a mistake in the beginning (e.g.,...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 30, 20165 min read
Why We Should Care About Sex Tapes
This morning Trump released a barrage of tweets speculating that former beauty queen Machado had made a sex tape. Of course, as with most...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 18, 20163 min read
The Necessity of Loving Your Body
I had the great honor this weekend to chair a panel at CatalystCon in Los Angeles. I presented a panel with Joie de Vivre and Diana Hong...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 16, 20165 min read
Comimg Out
I have had to come out about things a few times in my life. I’m queer. I’m bipolar. I am kinky. None of these things are obvious at first...
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Rebecca Blanton
Mar 22, 20166 min read
Talk to Your Kids About Porn!
We need to talk to our kids about how to watch porn. I have had this conversation a lot since I put out my book last year. I think it is...
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Rebecca Blanton
Mar 10, 20165 min read
Feminist Porn?
Must all porn oppress women? Can porn be freeing and uplifting for women? What the hell is “feminist porn?” I have written about feminism...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 20, 20158 min read
We Need to Talk
We, as a society, need to talk a lot more about variants on sexuality and relationship styles. For a long time I have maintained that the...
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