The most common advice a sex ed writer (including myself) gives for any question is to communicate. Communication about needs, desires,...

The world has been sending me messages that y'all are curious about sex and menopause and peri-menopause. I've received multiple emails...

Sex education is all sorts for messed up! The best we offer kids is showing them how to put a condom on a banana. To quote Dr. Sprankle:...

I've seen an increasing number of studies demonstrating that female (researchers only asked cis women) desire declines in long term...

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There are as many reasons people enjoy submission as there are folks who submit in sex or relationships. Our desires for power exchange...

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Most of BDSM and kink skills focus on techniques for different types of play (e.g., flogging, spanking). However, the world of BDSM is...

If you have been listening to Fat Chicks on Top , you know I’ve been talking to a variety of kinky folks who entered the scene over 20...

I am a fan of sexual and intimacy goal setting. It is a way to prioritize your pleasure and not let it languish as life happens. It also...

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BDSM and power exchange is often portrayed as something which exists as something in the bedroom. Yes, a large part of people’s dynamics...

When I am on my knees, looking up at my Dom, waiting on his command, I am in complete bliss. There is something wonderful and liberating...

If you have spent any time on kink blogs, podcasts, or in a class, you have heard people mention “head space.” Head space refers to the...

Communication is key. You have heard it hundreds, if not thousands of time when it comes to creating successful relationships and...

It is almost the end of 2021. I know mine has been exhausting. While the career aspect is going strong and health is slowly improving,...

Nothing puts a damper of getting down and dirty as visiting the parents for the holidays! With mom, dad, the kids, grandparents, or other...

Dating while kinky can be fun. It can also be immensely frustrating! Finding and connecting with a partner who matches you on desire,...

If you read much sex writing or feminist think pieces you are probably innunadate with work on the ‘orgasm gap’ and the admonition to...

Feeling bad about your body is common. Regardless of your actual weight, height, ability, shape, gender, or age, anyone can feel bad...