Resolutions and Practices of Happy Couples
Sponsored by LoveHoney With the New Year just around the corner, many of us will be working on our resolutions for 2023. But in the midst...
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Love letters to a unicorn is a blog covering kink, power exchange, and sex from the perspective of a submissive or bottom. It provides sex toy reviews and a vetted list of resources as well.
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Rebecca Blanton
- Nov 3, 2022
- 7 min
Grooming as BDSM and D/s
Most of BDSM and kink skills focus on techniques for different types of play (e.g., flogging, spanking). However, the world of BDSM is...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 19, 2022
- 5 min
Is Your Kink Practice Missing Something Critical?
If you have been listening to Fat Chicks on Top, you know I’ve been talking to a variety of kinky folks who entered the scene over 20...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 25, 2022
- 2 min
A Sexy Bucket List: How many have you done?
I am a fan of sexual and intimacy goal setting. It is a way to prioritize your pleasure and not let it languish as life happens. It also...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 8, 2022
- 1 min
Shay Tizano: Bound Up in Joy
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-amw4e-121fc8c Guest: Shay Tizano, Rope expert, Erotic Performer Author of Tying and Flying and...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 22, 2022
- 4 min
7 Ways to Expand Your Dynamic
BDSM and power exchange is often portrayed as something which exists as something in the bedroom. Yes, a large part of people’s dynamics...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 21, 2022
- 2 min
One Question Every Submissive Needs to Answer
When I am on my knees, looking up at my Dom, waiting on his command, I am in complete bliss. There is something wonderful and liberating...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 5, 2022
- 6 min
Head Space 101
If you have spent any time on kink blogs, podcasts, or in a class, you have heard people mention “head space.” Head space refers to the...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 24, 2022
- 4 min
How To Communicate When You Hate Long Talks
Communication is key. You have heard it hundreds, if not thousands of time when it comes to creating successful relationships and...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Dec 26, 2021
- 2 min
Getting What You Want in 2022: Step 1
It is almost the end of 2021. I know mine has been exhausting. While the career aspect is going strong and health is slowly improving,...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Nov 1, 2021
- 3 min
Home For the Holidays? Ways to stay kinky while visiting relatives
Nothing puts a damper of getting down and dirty as visiting the parents for the holidays! With mom, dad, the kids, grandparents, or other...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Oct 13, 2021
- 6 min
Can’t Find the Dom(me) of Your Dreams? This May Be Why!
Dating while kinky can be fun. It can also be immensely frustrating! Finding and connecting with a partner who matches you on desire,...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Sep 2, 2021
- 4 min
Options Other Than Faking Orgasms
If you read much sex writing or feminist think pieces you are probably innunadate with work on the ‘orgasm gap’ and the admonition to...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Aug 15, 2021
- 3 min
An Introduction to Body Affirming Kink Play
Feeling bad about your body is common. Regardless of your actual weight, height, ability, shape, gender, or age, anyone can feel bad...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 22, 2021
- 7 min
7 Tips for Hosting an Orgy
As more of us get vaccinated and back out there, so many of y’all are posting about having a slutty summer. Yay! I strongly encourage...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 2, 2021
- 4 min
Why Mantras Are Important to BDSM
You are probably familiar with mantras. They are short statements or words said repeatedly to help focus you. They are rooted in Buddhism...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 28, 2021
- 2 min
What Do Kinky Girls Keep in Their Bedside Table?
We all know that drawer- the on in the bedside table which houses all the most used, go-to devices and more! I keep all my most essential...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 28, 2021
- 12 min
What Is a Submissive’s Responsibility?
I love it when I come across people writing about submission in a deep and thoughtful way! If you have not discovered The Pleasure Coach,...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 9, 2021
- 4 min
Need a Little Sexy Inspiration? Try This!
One think a lot of people new to kink and BDSM find surprising is that even with the most experienced kinky folks, we can get a bit bored...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 22, 2021
- 5 min
7 Tips to Improve Your Sexy Banter
Listen on Spotify Want to stimulate the biggest sex organ for anyone? You need to get their brain aroused! While many of us rely on...
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