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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 28, 20244 min read
Empath? Maybe. Trauma-Survivor? Probably.
Are you an empath or is it just unaddressed trauma?
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 7, 20245 min read
The Gift of "No."
We are at the start of a new calendar year. This means folks out here with lots of resolutions to do new things, restart practices they...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 9, 20234 min read
Finding Out What You Really Want from Intimacy
Sex education is all sorts for messed up! The best we offer kids is showing them how to put a condom on a banana. To quote Dr. Sprankle:...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 10, 20232 min read
Become a Better Submissive by Understanding Internal Narratives
There are as many reasons people enjoy submission as there are folks who submit in sex or relationships. Our desires for power exchange...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 28, 20233 min read
Deeper and Deeper....
The physical activities of kink - spanking, tying up people, blindfolds- are what most folks think this lifestyle is all about. Putting...
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Rebecca Blanton
Mar 13, 20237 min read
Security Protocols: How Adding Protocols to Your Relationship May Reduce Anxiety
Anxiety is a common mental health issue. Protocols in a relationship can help reduce and manage it.
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 9, 20233 min read
Resolutions and Practices of Happy Couples
Sponsored by LoveHoney With the New Year just around the corner, many of us will be working on our resolutions for 2023. But in the midst...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 3, 20227 min read
Grooming as BDSM and D/s
Most of BDSM and kink skills focus on techniques for different types of play (e.g., flogging, spanking). However, the world of BDSM is...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 19, 20225 min read
Is Your Kink Practice Missing Something Critical?
If you have been listening to Fat Chicks on Top, you know I’ve been talking to a variety of kinky folks who entered the scene over 20...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 3, 20224 min read
Kink-Life Balance: Is 24/7 Really for You?
In the world of BDMS, power exchange, and kinky shenanigans, people who identify as having a 24/7 dynamic are often seen as the “ideal”...
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Rebecca Blanton
Dec 26, 20212 min read
Getting What You Want in 2022: Step 1
It is almost the end of 2021. I know mine has been exhausting. While the career aspect is going strong and health is slowly improving,...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 22, 20216 min read
Combining Weed and Kink? Read This!
Photo by Kindel Media on Pexels.com Weed is now legal in 18 U.S. states and the District of Columbia; two countries (Canada and Uruguay)...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 2, 20214 min read
Why Mantras Are Important to BDSM
You are probably familiar with mantras. They are short statements or words said repeatedly to help focus you. They are rooted in Buddhism...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 30, 20204 min read
Vaginal Dryness? It’s More Than “Just Add Lube”
I am a huge fan of lube as a normal part of sex. I have been using it since I discovered it in my teens. It is essential for fisting,...
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Rebecca Blanton
Nov 16, 202010 min read
Having a Hard Time Feeling Sexy? You are Not Alone!
Its been a hard year. A. Very. Hard. Year. Between COVID lockdowns and restrictions, the election, the United States beginning to recon...
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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 5, 20195 min read
Pain and Presence
There are different theories on how people “should” deal with pain. Some folks argue for being present with the pain. Some argue for...
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Rebecca Blanton
Mar 8, 20194 min read
Submissives and Self Care
Being a service sub myself, much of my joy in life comes from caring for other people. I get an absurd level of joy from things like...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 9, 20191 min read
Bonus Clips! Alice in Bondageland and Bevin
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-2jizs-a4090b Bonus Clips!! Our producer CharRon has put bonus material together from some of our...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 1, 20187 min read
How to Love Your Anxious Partner
Living with anxiety is a bitch. We all experience anxiety at some point in our lives. However, lots of folks live with anxiety as part of...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 31, 20183 min read
What 100 Hours of Talking to Sexy Peeps Taught Me
I launched my podcast project Fat Chicks On Top a few months back. I have been recording and building content since March. Its been a...
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