Resources to help manage existential dread

I’m voting pro ho this election. For months, weird Donny has been calling Kamala Harris a “ho.” He has made claims that she will be “the...

Are you an empath or is it just unaddressed trauma?

I was lucky enough to get to interview Mir Green from Wicked Grounds today and it helped me refine a few thoughts I have been playing...

Being part of the LGBTQ+ community means growning up in societies where we are not supported or embraced by the majority. If we are lucky...

Happy Pride!!! Pride is an ever-evolving event. It started as a riot against abusive policing. It has become a party, a way to take a...

Meg Elison, Author I finally got to talk to one of my favorite authors, Meg Elison. She has written the Road to Nowhere series, Big Girl,...

You receive messages about sex and sexuality your entire live. From the media you watch, listen to, and read, to how your parents...

Books This is a list of queer books that have stayed with me. I provide only the citation and genre so that you can enjoy them without...

I did an interview for Unleash Their PoTEENtial a free, online teen summit about the future of gender (spoiler alert: its nonbinary)....

Guest Post by Peter Minkoff Peter Minkoff is a writer for High Style Life in Australia (and has great advice, IMHO– Auntie Vice) If...

We all have our limits, be they soft or hard. Not everyone likes spanking. Not everyone enjoys rope. We are all loosely bound by our...

I am an accidental sex/kink blogger. This site started five years ago as a book promotion site for a book I really didn’t think too many...

Guest Post by Peter Minkoff (Homo Culture Magazine) *This article is written mostly for gay men but has great advice for anyone engaging...

I’m feeling old and crotchety after a month of Pride. Maybe its because I have been doing Pride for more than three decades and it is not...

It’s June, Pride Month. I have been out for three decades and have spent most of that time as a queer rights advocate. I have very mixed...

In the kinky world we use a lot of labels. Queer, kinky, top, bottom, Master, slave, Domme, submissive, baby girl, pet, Daddy, switch,...

For those of you unfamiliar with Fetlife, it is a social media site for kinky folks (kinky defined very broadly). Currently, there is a...

The more I read about nonbinary folks and the more I see cis folks try and talk about nonbinary folks, the more I understand that this is...

There is a new call to add a K for “kink” to the LGBTQ+ acronym. This call for more inclusion has highlighted a couple of issues in both...