In the world of BDMS, power exchange, and kinky shenanigans, people who identify as having a 24/7 dynamic are often seen as the “ideal”...

If you have spent any time on kink blogs, podcasts, or in a class, you have heard people mention “head space.” Head space refers to the...

Feeling bad about your body is common. Regardless of your actual weight, height, ability, shape, gender, or age, anyone can feel bad...

Listen on Spotify Finding out your partner has cheated on you is often devastating. Regardless of your relationship style (monogamous,...

Living with anxiety is a bitch. We all experience anxiety at some point in our lives. However, lots of folks live with anxiety as part of...

I love planning scenes. Figuring out the details, setting up the situations, and preparing the tools and clothing for a scene has always...

Power exchange relationships have many similarities to vanilla relationships. Both require kindness, understanding, communication, and...

It is probably the most common thing I hear or see written about submission: The submissive is really the one in charge. The sub can stop...

I love protocols. I have found safety and security in protocol for years. It helps me get into submissive head space. It can create...