Resolutions and Practices of Happy Couples
Sponsored by LoveHoney With the New Year just around the corner, many of us will be working on our resolutions for 2023. But in the midst...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 25, 2021
- 5 min
Do This BEFORE a Partner Cheats
Listen on Spotify Finding out your partner has cheated on you is often devastating. Regardless of your relationship style (monogamous,...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 9, 2021
- 4 min
Need a Little Sexy Inspiration? Try This!
One think a lot of people new to kink and BDSM find surprising is that even with the most experienced kinky folks, we can get a bit bored...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 16, 2021
- 4 min
Sex Life in a Rut? Break Out of It With These 5 Tips
Listen on Spotify One of my favorite scenes from a movie is the therapy scene in the beginning of The Ref. Judy Davis and Kevin Spacey...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Dec 3, 2019
- 5 min
What Monogamous Folks Can Learn from Non-Monogamy
Monogamy is an idealized relationship style. Its “all-or-nothing.” One slip up – one flirtation leading to a kiss, one sexual encounter,...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Apr 2, 2019
- 5 min
“We Need to Talk”: Ambiguity in Relationships
“We need to talk.” Its the sentence many of us live in fear of hearing from our partners. When we get a text or a message or a partner...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jun 9, 2018
- 6 min
5 Skills for Fighting Fair in Kinky Relationships
Healthy couples fight. Most healthy couples don’t fight often, but disagreements do arise, emotions heighten and we fight. Its actually a...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Dec 20, 2016
- 3 min
Ethical Monogamy
People who practice ethical non-monogamy talk a lot about what it means to be ethical in a non-monogamous relationship. But what about...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Oct 25, 2016
- 5 min
Insecurity Kills Relationships
Insecurity about did in my marriage. Other things killed it, but my insecurity was a big issue. I honestly thought I had conquered the...
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Rebecca Blanton
- May 15, 2016
- 3 min
You Are Not as Poly or Mono As You Think
I spend a lot of time talking to people and reading social media boards by both polyamorous and monogamous folks. Universally, people are...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Feb 22, 2016
- 5 min
Sex Is Fundamental
American’s are weird about sex. Very weird. We use sex to sell everything in America from hamburgers to perfume to children’s toys. We...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jan 4, 2016
- 5 min
30th Anniversary
This year marks 30 years of activism for me. In 1986 I started my first volunteer gig with and HIV/AIDS outreach and support organization...
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Rebecca Blanton
- Jul 5, 2015
- 5 min
On Marriage
I will begin by saying that I am thrilled five of the members of the Supreme Court were enlightened enough to understand that gay...
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