We are at the start of a new calendar year. This means folks out here with lots of resolutions to do new things, restart practices they...

I work with a lot of kinky folks of all identities and levels of experience. When I talk to folks from the left side of the slash, they...

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If you are new-ish to kink you may be under the impression that power exchange and kink are specifically for sex and intimate play time....

Whether you personally are new to kink, or you are dating someone new to kink, it is an exciting time filled with fun and learning! It...

I am so excited to announce I will be working with Wicked Grounds to host “30 Days of Kinky Self-Discovery” in January 2021. So many...

I’ll be honest, I have never been a huge cat fan. I mean, you adopt this pet who poos in your house, who is petty and controlling, and...

We talk a lot about negotiation in the kink scene. Negotiating what you will and will not do, what you want and what your partner(s) want...

The great thing about the advent of the internet, search engines, and millions of pages with information about kink/BDSM is that it has...

I love planning scenes. Figuring out the details, setting up the situations, and preparing the tools and clothing for a scene has always...

Power exchange relationships have many similarities to vanilla relationships. Both require kindness, understanding, communication, and...

We are living in an age where certainty is demanded. Any time someone changes their mind or expresses any level of uncertainty, people...

Tips for identifying abuse with the BDSM community and power exchange relationship

One of the core principles of BDSM play is that players, all players, have a right to protect their body and mind. We stress consent,...

One of the best things about the kink community is that it places consent front and center of community values. Not only do groups talk...

At some point in the last decade culture in the United States started demanding that people be certain about everything. We collectively...

Consent is one of these topics that comes up all the time in the kink community. It will come up in the wider world after a horrific rape...

Simple answer… yes, yes it is. Regardless of what you do, it is weird to someone. One the the most shocking things I do or say is that I...

Its the most common question I see of new kinksters, “Am I doing this right?” It comes in several versions, “I think I am a Domme, but I...