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Rebecca Blanton
Dec 3, 20245 min read
Your Story is a Revolution
The one thing I know for sure, after years of teaching and lobbying legislatures, is that facts don’t move opinions. Stories do. It is...
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Rebecca Blanton
Mar 28, 20245 min read
Fight Capitalism One Wank at a Time!
Masturbation is inherently anti-capitalist. I've been playing with that concept for the last month and have come to really believe that...
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Rebecca Blanton
Mar 22, 20243 min read
Challenging Prejudice: Let's Talk About Sex Workers Rights
Guest Post by Peter Minkoff Photo Credit: https://www.pexels.com/photo/amsterdam-canal-lights-red-light-district-9320/ We live in a world...
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 29, 20243 min read
Communicating About Sex is Hard! Make It Easier with These Tips
The most common advice a sex ed writer (including myself) gives for any question is to communicate. Communication about needs, desires,...
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 8, 20247 min read
Sex & Menopause
The world has been sending me messages that y'all are curious about sex and menopause and peri-menopause. I've received multiple emails...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jan 22, 20243 min read
I Can’t Ask For That! What to do when you are embarrassed about what you want in bed
If you are a frequent reader of sex advice columns, you will quickly come to notice the number of letters which begin “I am so...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 28, 20235 min read
Guide to Making Butt Stuff FUN!
This post has been sponsored by LoveHoney. Curious about anal sex? Not a fan of anal sex but want to try other butt stuff? Your Auntie...
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Rebecca Blanton
Aug 25, 20234 min read
Male Masturbation: A touchy subject
This article was sponsored by LoveHoney. I personally endorse their toys! Check out my review here. Male Masturbation: A touchy subject...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 28, 20233 min read
Deeper and Deeper....
The physical activities of kink - spanking, tying up people, blindfolds- are what most folks think this lifestyle is all about. Putting...
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Rebecca Blanton
Dec 19, 20224 min read
Find a New Kink for 2023
As we close one calendar year and move into the next, many of us take time to evaluate and make goals or wishes for the coming year. If...
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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 19, 20223 min read
Menopause Just as Likely to INCREASE Sex Drive as Decrease It
A Myth Busting Survey by Fun Factory and Momotaro Apotheca (post sponsored by Fun Factory) Highlighted Results ● 42% of women aged...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jul 24, 20222 min read
Sexual Fantasy Research
Sponsored Post We don’t tend to talk about sexual fantasies with many people. Too many of us carry shame around the things we know turn...
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Rebecca Blanton
Jun 1, 20221 min read
Pride 2022
Happy Pride!!! Pride is an ever-evolving event. It started as a riot against abusive policing. It has become a party, a way to take a...
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Rebecca Blanton
May 25, 20222 min read
A Sexy Bucket List: How many have you done?
I am a fan of sexual and intimacy goal setting. It is a way to prioritize your pleasure and not let it languish as life happens. It also...
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Rebecca Blanton
Apr 11, 20221 min read
Summer Reading List
Meg Elison, Author I finally got to talk to one of my favorite authors, Meg Elison. She has written the Road to Nowhere series, Big Girl,...
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Rebecca Blanton
Mar 15, 20223 min read
Should Submissives Express THEIR Needs?
When you are submissive or enjoy being submissive with a partner, navigating your own desires can be tricky. As submissives, we sometime...
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Rebecca Blanton
Feb 21, 20222 min read
One Question Every Submissive Needs to Answer
When I am on my knees, looking up at my Dom, waiting on his command, I am in complete bliss. There is something wonderful and liberating...
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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 23, 20215 min read
BDSM Tips for Beginners
Sponsored Post from HotCherry.com Of all sex practices, BDSM might just be the most misunderstood. Many people associate it with...
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Rebecca Blanton
Oct 7, 20215 min read
4 Unexepected ways Audio Porn is Better Than Sex
By April Sutphen Sponsored Post Some people might argue that there’s no better feeling in the world than having sex, when in actuality,...
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Rebecca Blanton
Sep 12, 20214 min read
5 Common Beliefs Which Undermine Your Sex Life
You receive messages about sex and sexuality your entire live. From the media you watch, listen to, and read, to how your parents...
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