Kink play can be intense! That is part of the fun of it. We play physically and psychologically hard. Weather you are into impact play,...

Whether you personally are new to kink, or you are dating someone new to kink, it is an exciting time filled with fun and learning! It...

Photo by Kindel Media on Pexels.com Weed is now legal in 18 U.S. states and the District of Columbia; two countries (Canada and Uruguay)...

I love it when I come across people writing about submission in a deep and thoughtful way! If you have not discovered The Pleasure Coach,...

Things are beginning to open back up in the United States and elsewhere. While we are not at a point with public health to fully reopen...

I can remember the first time I read Macho Sluts by Pat Califia. While all the sex was really hot, a few of the stories stood out because...

Guest Post By: Spices of Lust Your BDSM experience is personal to you — and your partners. It’s meant to be whatever you make of it, and...

For those of you unfamiliar with Fetlife, it is a social media site for kinky folks (kinky defined very broadly). Currently, there is a...

It’s great that vanilla America is finally discovering the idea of consent. Not our judges or politicians apparently, but a large number...

I have been thinking a lot about apologies lately. Nationally, men have been issuing varying forms of apologies for sexually harassing...

It is Pride month. This year is particularly politically charged. There are fights about adding black and brown stripes to the Pride...

I love the BDSM community. I love kink. It is integral to who I am and how I see the world. I love the aesthetic, the values, and the...

One of the best things about the kink community is that it places consent front and center of community values. Not only do groups talk...

By now, you have probably seen images from BDSM/kink movies or pornography. You may have tied up a date or given someone a spanking. It’s...

When someone says they were raped, many people ask, “So, did you say ‘no?'” It is a common question in court and in police...

Consent is one of these topics that comes up all the time in the kink community. It will come up in the wider world after a horrific rape...

I was working on my next blog post about measures around sex and research findings and planned on posting it today, then the American...

California has enacted SB695, a law which will now required high schools in California to teach students about the concept of...