Rebecca BlantonAug 2, 20215 min7 Tips When You Are New to KinkWhether you personally are new to kink, or you are dating someone new to kink, it is an exciting time filled with fun and learning! It...
Rebecca BlantonMar 15, 20214 min7 Tips for Navigating the Post-COVID Kink WorldThings are beginning to open back up in the United States and elsewhere. While we are not at a point with public health to fully reopen...
Rebecca BlantonApr 16, 20209 minWhen “D” in BDSM Stands for DissimilarHot take: A majority of folks you date will have dissimilar sexual needs and tastes than you do. Most couples I have met over my 40+...
Rebecca BlantonJan 14, 20207 min10 Things EVERY Kinky Person Should TryWe all have our limits, be they soft or hard. Not everyone likes spanking. Not everyone enjoys rope. We are all loosely bound by our...
Rebecca BlantonJun 4, 20185 minPlanning a SceneI love planning scenes. Figuring out the details, setting up the situations, and preparing the tools and clothing for a scene has always...
Rebecca BlantonNov 21, 20177 minPower of ApologiesI have been thinking a lot about apologies lately. Nationally, men have been issuing varying forms of apologies for sexually harassing...
Rebecca BlantonJun 26, 20175 minSex and the ResistanceIt is Pride month. This year is particularly politically charged. There are fights about adding black and brown stripes to the Pride...
Rebecca BlantonMay 26, 20174 minShould Kink Assimilate?Kink, in many forms, is now more popular and more visible than ever. I knew we had gone mainstream when American Dad, Family Guy and...