Rebecca BlantonApr 16, 20209 minWhen “D” in BDSM Stands for DissimilarHot take: A majority of folks you date will have dissimilar sexual needs and tastes than you do. Most couples I have met over my 40+...
Rebecca BlantonDec 3, 20195 minWhat Monogamous Folks Can Learn from Non-MonogamyMonogamy is an idealized relationship style. Its “all-or-nothing.” One slip up – one flirtation leading to a kiss, one sexual encounter,...
Rebecca BlantonFeb 2, 20173 minKinky ResistanceLet’s talk about the idea of “religious freedom” and why it is absolutely imperative for all of us to be as queer and kinky as possible....
Rebecca BlantonDec 20, 20163 minEthical MonogamyPeople who practice ethical non-monogamy talk a lot about what it means to be ethical in a non-monogamous relationship. But what about...