One think a lot of people new to kink and BDSM find surprising is that even with the most experienced kinky folks, we can get a bit bored...

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Monogamy is an idealized relationship style. Its “all-or-nothing.” One slip up – one flirtation leading to a kiss, one sexual encounter,...

I adore having protocols in a relationship. Those rules and rituals power exchange couples create to serve their relationship provide a...

I’ll be honest, I have never been a huge cat fan. I mean, you adopt this pet who poos in your house, who is petty and controlling, and...

One of the most fortuitous events in my life was discovering the kinky world at about the same time I started puberty. It provided me...

The great thing about the advent of the internet, search engines, and millions of pages with information about kink/BDSM is that it has...

Healthy couples fight. Most healthy couples don’t fight often, but disagreements do arise, emotions heighten and we fight. Its actually a...

So you want to try switching things up. Great! There are a lot of benefits to switching power positions (e.g., a submissive trying...

I love sex! I do. And I think sex is important to most healthy romantic relationships. The old adage is sex is about ten percent of any...