Hello Sexy Readers! I have been away doing thing…. mainly testing products and services for you. I have a new section on this blog in the...

https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-gpaia-9ee5de 40!!! Guests: Evie Vane (author, blogger) and Tina Hayes (Belly Dancer/Model) Auntie...

I can’t believe I haven’t written a blog post on topping from the bottom! How could I be so remiss of addressing a topic which comes up...

One of the most fortuitous events in my life was discovering the kinky world at about the same time I started puberty. It provided me...

Living with anxiety is a bitch. We all experience anxiety at some point in our lives. However, lots of folks live with anxiety as part of...

We talk a lot about negotiation in the kink scene. Negotiating what you will and will not do, what you want and what your partner(s) want...

I launched my podcast project Fat Chicks On Top a few months back. I have been recording and building content since March. Its been a...

The great thing about the advent of the internet, search engines, and millions of pages with information about kink/BDSM is that it has...

When I was in one of my basic psychology courses in undergrad, the professor described sublimation with the following example. Say you...

The theme of healing through kink has come up repeatedly in both my reading and real life a lot lately. For me, this is a touchy subject....

I write erotica for pay under a number of pseudonyms. My favorite stories are the ones where I get to create entire worlds. Here is one...

Healthy couples fight. Most healthy couples don’t fight often, but disagreements do arise, emotions heighten and we fight. Its actually a...

Most of us, whatever our gender, whatever our sexual orientation, do not love our bodies. Or, we do not love our bodies most of the time....

I love planning scenes. Figuring out the details, setting up the situations, and preparing the tools and clothing for a scene has always...

It’s June, Pride Month. I have been out for three decades and have spent most of that time as a queer rights advocate. I have very mixed...

In the kinky world we use a lot of labels. Queer, kinky, top, bottom, Master, slave, Domme, submissive, baby girl, pet, Daddy, switch,...

It’s National Mental Health Awareness Month so lets talk about power exchange and mental illness. Depending on the source, between 20 and...

For those of you unfamiliar with Fetlife, it is a social media site for kinky folks (kinky defined very broadly). Currently, there is a...

Power exchange relationships have many similarities to vanilla relationships. Both require kindness, understanding, communication, and...

The more I read about nonbinary folks and the more I see cis folks try and talk about nonbinary folks, the more I understand that this is...